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我觉得这样的娃,往往是要强的,但是因为对自己要求高,或者要面子,所以不承认错误。
我家娃小时候也这样,我反正就是把她当工作同事对待,说话的时候不加情绪。
娃状态好的时候:
Not bad. Let me see. This and that are hard. I am impressed that you did this far. You know what? There might be a trick to do it better. Do you want to figure out yourself first? Yes? OK, let me know if you need that trick.
娃状态不太好需要帮忙
This is hard. I might know a trick to fix it. Do you want me to show you? Yes? Do you want to do it today or another day? Today? OK, but before we get started, let's get one thing clear first. I am here to help you outperform yourself. Basically what I do is I find the not so good parts, show you the trick, but at the end of the day, it's still you who have to work on it. It might sound like I am picking on you, but I am not doing it to make you sad. And it might take longer than you thought. If we can't get this done, we can always continue another day. Even a smallest improvement is still a success. You just need to give yourself more patience and time, and I think you can do it. BTW, don't give me any attitude. I know you are tired, but I am tired too, and I am only here to help.
娃完全不在状态
Do you want to take a break? You look tired. Let's eat and rest a bit. You need to work hard, but also to work efficiently. Is this part too hard? Want to see how I do it when I was your age? OK, Mommy will show you another day. Let's take a break now. |
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