有2娃是不是前3年最好辞职在家？

缱绻

和孩子在一起的时光最美好，孩子天天在长大，错过了他们的成长很遗憾的，有条件的话多陪孩子吧

小昭

都说头三年全职陪宝宝对宝宝最好，为什么？我怎么觉得幼儿园带得挺好的

bhua9

小昭 发表于 2016-9-6 07:01
都说头三年全职陪宝宝对宝宝最好，为什么？我怎么觉得幼儿园带得挺好的 ...

头三年全职陪宝宝对宝宝最好是有前提的,　不是绝对的,　不用人云亦云.

１岁到２岁去入托的孩子分离焦虑比较严重,　孩子和家长过不了这关的,　会认为会给孩子留下心理阴影,　所以延迟到３岁入托比较好.　
找不到合适的质量好的cc,  那肯定是在家带的条件更好.
妈妈本身有足够耐心也懂得享受和孩子一起玩和学习的.　

不然的话,　送去cc几天也挺好的.

cyqautumn

fellow 发表于 2016-8-28 20:14
为什么有优势 ？全职妈妈也不耽误培养孩子呀，我有个同事，两个孩子都是本科去读哈佛，也一直都是full ti ...

can't agree more!!!!!
i think when mum is tough... kids must be tough!!! however... if the mum stay at home without work (doesn't matter for what kind of reason)... kids must not be tough!!!! some of kids will be very lazy... because kids always modeling their mum!!!

northwind79

cyqautumn 发表于 2016-9-6 11:19
can't agree more!!!!!
i think when mum is tough... kids must be tough!!! however... if the mum sta ...

In the first three years of their life, they should learn to be nice, gentle, caring, secured, inquisitive, etc, but not tough.

cyqautumn

northwind79 发表于 2016-9-6 11:25
In the first three years of their life, they should learn to be nice, gentle, caring, secured, inq ...

why not tough?????? tough need to be learn from very early age!!! tough doesnt mean not nice, not gentle no caring, no secured..... its totally different!!!!

northwind79

cyqautumn 发表于 2016-9-6 11:27
why not tough?????? tough need to be learn from very early age!!! tough doesnt mean not nice, not  ...

if that's so, then it doesn't mean staying with mother will not raise tough kids.

cyqautumn

northwind79 发表于 2016-9-6 11:29
if that's so, then it doesn't mean staying with mother will not raise tough kids.

well... different people have different opinion... i would say..... your opinion is not wrong.....and you can keep have your opinion.... people wont have the same opinion and raise the kids by using the same way!!!! There is no right or wrong... everything is very subjective....

bhua9

cyqautumn 发表于 2016-9-6 11:19
can't agree more!!!!!
i think when mum is tough... kids must be tough!!! however... if the mum sta ...

这个评论满满的社会达尔文主义.　就连划分妈妈孩子群体的形容一也很简单二元化.　

kicoandy

生完5个月就回去上班的飘过

luola

看家庭条件

liz@aus

孩子的成才教育看你花多少心思能不能事半功倍，不是看你留在他们身边多久

cyqautumn

bhua9 发表于 2016-9-6 12:53
这个评论满满的社会达尔文主义.　就连划分妈妈孩子群体的形容一也很简单二元化.　
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its obviously depends on lots of things..... but we cannt deny if the mother is tough, then the kids must be tough.....
Sigh...... i dont think here is good place to make any comment..... as doesnt matter how.... someone like attack others  just because people have different opinion......