请教这里的Kinder Teacher或者小学teacher或者少儿专家？

Ahhhha

背景信息是：
坐标墨尔本：一个5岁班级的kindergarten， government funded，30多个孩子，男孩居多，都是behaviour challenging的孩子，其中有几个diagnosed 的additional needs。

孩子一起玩，rough play难免的，情况反复发生，上升到conflict，fight的level时候，有的男孩很aggresive会直接kick不敢声张的孩子，那么问题来了，这样的情况一再发生，我们已经给aggressive的孩子家校都制定了behaviour management action plan，各种对策和strategy，正面教导旁敲侧击，包括take on extra responsibility的让小皮蛋regulate自己的情绪和行为好给其他同学做榜样。
我们对一些不敢声张的孩子， 也有策略就是自己受欺负了，语言第一，让对方停， 还是不停，就赶紧告诉老师，好保护自己。

结果有的小皮蛋聪明着呢，趁老师不注意赶紧接二连三的kick，实在是过分的无法用言语形容，有时候victim会retaliate就push过去以求自保。请问其他的老师，小学班主任也是，这种班级管理，你会如何处理，是可以让孩子push回去好自保，还是直接鼓励孩子用语言，站着不还手叫住手，不然告诉老师。这个是一个dilemma ，主要家长跟我们都担心有的孩子经常趁老师不注意的时候，受到了伤害，鼓励他们stick up for themselves有时候意味着文明解决non-violence的话就是自己被打的感觉。

想听听这里行内人的意见，诚心求教。（家校都在积极想对策，但这个对策不是一夜之间就出来的，都是在根据实际情况，做调整，做修改，添加等等。）所以，来自里咨询下大家的意见。谢谢。

SmithN

You would not have much luck here. Try EssentialKids forum.

Ahhhha

SmithN 发表于 2016-6-10 19:47
You would not have much luck here. Try EssentialKids forum.

谢谢你

160

The bullies need to face heavier consequences - official warning letter, parent interview, in-school suspension etc.

Nominating student leaders may be a good idea to set role models and support students who are being bullied.

As an educator, you should never encourage children to fight back physically to stick up for themselves; this will only agitate their conflicts.

However, it's very hard to create a school environment with absolutely no bullying. Being a teacher/educator is not an easy task, but we are making a difference in many people's lives.

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ehope

这个不好解决，我儿子学了2天武术还是被打，告诉我不想被老师警告。

Ahhhha

160 发表于 2016-6-11 16:09
The bullies need to face heavier consequences - official warning letter, parent interview, in-school ...

This really meant something to me. Very inspirational thoughts. Thank you.