AMY CHUA 的 书被断章取义“妖魔化中国妈妈” 我们已经和西人妈妈们激烈辩论过了

cl2007

一篇文章把她书中的内容断章取义，妖魔化中国妈妈，引来很多西人妈妈评价，那天，我忙了一天，但忍不住，奋笔疾书，发了文章 The true secret of a proud Chinese Mum。后来我接到了很多来自西人妈妈支持的邮件。
那个讨论很快到了几十页，
但很客观的说，大部分西人妈妈们是中立客观有见地（当然也有讨厌的），那些讨论很有价值，很多元，有在华人家中成长的孩子，有西人老公赞扬自己的华人太太，，很多西人妈妈的思考，有西人对提出的“澳洲人反智力”极其愤怒。

我文中片段：

Why we value education?
It is the spirit deeply rooted in our families’ cultural heritage, that is we value education, and believe the desirable characters such as being proactive, put first things first, understanding synergy and more will be fostered during the learning journey, and this procedure will create a system to sustain a growth process for a young man who will definitely contribute to our world in the future!

How we educate Character strength?
we did cultivate XX’s all-round character strength, for instance, during our beautiful holiday, we shared Helen Keller’s Three Days to See and understood: “how people could add joy to their lives by really seeing what passes unnoticed before them. He would try to awake their dormant and sluggish faculties”; XX also leant how to self-management and resist temptations from interaction with computer games, he is an excellent computer game player, but he planned for himself to only play computer games one hour per weekend day, and he can also switch quickly from computer to other tasks such as reading books or playing with his young brother. More importantly, he started to understand how to contribute the society through his talent.

后来，一些中国妈妈的发言也很有说服力。

http://www.essentialbaby.com.au/ ... c=860932&st=190

Autumnleaves

平生第一次坐沙发，而且是我所敬仰的LZ。有幸。

cl2007

过奖过奖！谢谢你。（我偷偷乐）

原帖由 Autumnleaves 于 2011-1-25 23:02 发表
平生第一次坐沙发，而且是我所敬仰的LZ。有幸。

蓝月亮

没看过她的书不过看过下面这个文章
最近广受争议的
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB ... 59713528698754.html
Why Chinese mother are superior? By Amy chua
俺觉得她太铁腕
父母那辈多这样的
我们这一代的父母受西方理念影响这样的估计很少了

linghaib

human right

frankielynna

这样的妈妈在美国不给抓起来吗？澳洲不是有个例子是法官判爸爸失去对子女的教育权，原因就是给孩子太多学业上的压力？
也许她lg没有提出离婚，她也搞得定她的孩子。good on her.

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TIME最新一期也做了封面了，评价算正面吧

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