HELP, advices needed!

intersection

Hello all,
I am now struggling to make decision about where to go...advices are needed...
I am currently living with families in Melbourne, working with a sort of good career (secured and reasonable return), and owned assets. However, I know a girl for more than 6 years, we did have good time, as well as arguments, but she is now relocated to Sydney for nearly 2 years. There is lots of issues in maintaining a long distance relationship…The current situation is we are broken up, actually, she said intends to broke up…I have some thought about to move towards to Sydney, and try the luck to fix this relationship (maybe the chances are less than 10%, I don’t know).
For taking the move, I may not have many choices within this bad economic period.
1)Through company internal system is very tough as workflow in NSW office is very slow, and they cannot take any more staff.
2)Quit my existing job and reapply another one up in Sydney. Actually this way contains lots of risks under the economic storm.
3)Personally, I do not prefer Sydney’s living style, a purely commercial city and crow (personal opinion only).
Even the chances of relationship can be recovered is very low…but…I being encouraged to do something that won’t make me regret in the future…

Any idea how can I choose??? Thank you in advance!!!

astina

她分手的理由是什么？

还有，看你多爱她了。爱到一定程度，就愿意做牺牲和妥协。

人生并不尽是数字计算。

xingbu

哈哈，如果真爱她，肯定不会太在意现在的工作啊什么的啦。

astina

就是两个城市之间的距离而已，还在同一个国家。LZ这么犹豫，我要是女生也会心冷。

chinara

我觉得在这里已经比国内强很多。国内涉及到户口，孩子的户口更麻烦。 所以你的情况应该还好解决吧。 有没有试过彼此在对方的城市找找工作？ 应该不会非常难吧。 如果你们都没有这么试过，我只能说会不会你们在感情有其他的问题，地域问题只是一个借口？

WTFAUS

那么近的两个城市，都要那么考虑再三？为何就不能维持现状，而lz每周末飞悉尼，或她飞过来？
如果这点距离都不能承受，双方都不肯为对方牺牲一点，那两人的感情基础也薄弱的可以。

astina

原帖由 WTFAUS 于 2008-12-2 11:42 发表
那么近的两个城市，都要那么考虑再三？为何就不能维持现状，而lz每周末飞悉尼，或她飞过来？
如果这点距离都不能承受，双方都不肯为对方牺牲一点，那两人的感情基础也薄弱的可以。

做周末夫妻啊，永远住２个城市？

konatsume

在墨尔本吧。为你自己好的话

pal

when Syd and Mel argue to be the capital as Australia, aussies built a city in the middle called Canberra