对付小孩在学校受欺负的好办法

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标题是我自己加的，内容则是转来的。

这是在美国的华人妈妈写的经验，但相信方法同样适用于这边。


今天小女遇上坏小孩了

   来源: amommy 于 08-03-03 16:11:36 [档案] [博客] [旧帖] [转至博客] [给我悄悄话]   
        
今天一下校车，女儿就很不高兴得对我说， "XXX said mean words to me. " 我问她什麽事，她说她和XXX tag, 後来XXX开始用拳头打，她叫他stop, 他不听，还说，“get out of this country. " 说了好几遍。

我有点吃惊，那小孩才七岁。 我应该怎麽办？ 跟女儿说什麽好？  


回答: 今天小女遇上坏小孩了 由 amommy 于 2008-03-03 16:11:36

I think it's time for her to face some ugly aspects of the society now. It is necessary for all school-aged kids to know about and how to respond to it.

I have experienced severe when I was in middle school because the kids weren't separated by their academic achievements and everybody had to take pretty much all similar classes, so I had to deal with alot of low-class kids everyday. They pretty much bullied every Asian kids who had good grades.

When bullying happened, especially physical ones, we pretty much just dragged witnesses (who were almost always Asians, by the way) and went to the counselors to report the situations. The school usually suspended those kids in cases of physical bullies if there weren't any discrepancies in the witnesses' statements.

Also, the school nowadays treat very seriously. So if your daughter can get witnesses to support her, she can report both racial remark and physical bullies all at once, and that kid can get in serious trouble (at least in middle school and high school he will).

Also, if your daughter gets bullied or hit in school, do not fight back immediately because many school districts don't even bother to investigate in the fight since self-defense on campus is very very hard to prove. They basically just punish both parties all together. So if she gets into a fight, she can potentially be suspended also, even if she didn't start it


Final advice: drag as many witnesses as possible and DO NOT get in to fights!

Good luck I'm sure she will be ok!
  
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OK, drag as many witnesses as possible and DO NOT get in to fights!

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