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炒肝

木屐族

发表于 2007-9-20 03:51 |显示全部楼层

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下周日就要去墨尔本了，好舍不得妈妈啊！想到一年见不到爸爸妈妈就有点想哭~

hy841

金靴族

发表于 2007-9-20 08:30 |显示全部楼层

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不能加分,但可以安慰一下先.
我也是,3年前独自一人离开中国,澳洲没有半个亲戚朋友,那时雄心壮志,觉得有很多等我去完成的事情,所以离开家人的时候并不觉得难受.去年等我一切稳定下来回家过年,再过来离开机场的时候,看见妈妈头上慢慢出现的白发,甚至上下车不太灵活的关节,心里非常非常难受,回头摆手向他们告别还装做潇洒,其实泪流满面,一路登机,我都在哭,也管不了周围人来人往.
现在我最大的愿望就是过两年把她"买"过来,让我们不在承受离别的痛苦.

patrickzhu

水晶靴族

发表于 2007-9-20 08:37 |显示全部楼层

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everything would be fine after you well settle down here.

WTFAUS

白金靴族

发表于 2007-9-20 13:14 |显示全部楼层

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原帖由 patrickzhu 于 2007-9-20 07:37 发表
everything would be fine after you well settle down here.

yeah true. its just a matter of time.

小雪

布鞋族

发表于 2007-9-20 15:12 |显示全部楼层

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原帖由 WTFAUS 于 2007-9-20 12:14 发表

yeah true. its just a matter of time.

but how long?

patrickzhu

水晶靴族

发表于 2007-9-20 15:24 |显示全部楼层

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It is quite hard to answer...
Most of new migrants I belive (including myself) would need one year to make theirself comfortable here, get used to the different life here.
Someone maybe needs more time...
When you come to here, try to open yourself to this society as much as possible.
DON"T KEEP YOURSELF IN CLOSE CIRCLE.
DO ANYTHING in relation with life, working... yourself even your english is not good.
When you feel comfortable to stay here, familiar with most of life/working rules, that means "WELL SETTLE DOWN".

dizzypiggy

木屐族

发表于 2007-9-20 16:15 |显示全部楼层

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patrick, how long took you to settle down?

patrickzhu

水晶靴族

发表于 2007-9-20 16:33 |显示全部楼层

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In first year, I was working in Brisbane with family separated situation (my wife working in Sydney). I have to say that at first 3 months, I was always in sort of "panic" situation. Quite different here from China!
After six months since landing, I gradually "calmed down" (NOT settle down well). Almost every fortnightly, I flied between Brisbane and Sydney to be a "weekend" husband and Dad, till I got job in Sydney one year later.
One year after, I felt more and more confidence and comfortable to live/work here, because the facts was happening that "I can really do most of things independently".
ONE YEAR I reckon it is my "Well Settle Down" period.