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I think it's best if you keep applying for jobs and because it's the first time you are looking for jobs on the market, you have to have more preparation than others.
Here is my experience: I worked in an Australian Engineering company for 2.5 years now. It's a very professional world, you get treated better than Chinese companies and they pay well, if you want to be employed, you have to know how to present yourself very well. Have an extensive research on the web, collect interview tips and watch some interview clips on YouTube. My mentor here told me (he is local Australian and has more than 20 years of working experience and he is a senior manager now) that he only expect 1 interview out of 10 applications he sends out. There are too many people out there (most of them locals and have some advantages than us) to compete with us who came from a different culture, it is destined to be hard. However, if you just got rejected by a few and cries and want to give up, then I don't suggest you stay here. Getting a job is only just the start, you need to work hard, to get recognised among local Australians and trying to get promotions and I have to be honest with you, there is glass-ceiling for us Chinese in some places and you will feel even more helpless and disappointed when you are in that situations.
I think your boyfriend is trying to do the right thing by you. Please DO NOT think you can count on anyone, as a female, it is important to be independent, mentally and financially, we don't know what is going to happen and the only person we can count on in the end is ourselves. This is my honest opinion for you.
Please be positive and keep going. We have all been there and know how you feel more or less. I do hope you have luck with the job hunt soon and talk to your boyfriend, tell him you appreciate what he is doing but if he can change the way he delivers his message across to you.
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