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[睡眠训练] 持分求教:真心求教5个月宝宝睡眠问题(有安抚奶嘴) [复制链接]

发表于 2015-7-29 15:52 来自手机 |显示全部楼层
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city07 发表于 2015-7-27 14:15
目前也是各种反复中,但是不敢放松,要坚持下去,不能让之前的苦都白受了。。不过听他哭的时候还真的很难 ...

我就是这样 有时候她哭久了 我就投降了 所以反反复复
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发表于 2015-7-29 16:56 |显示全部楼层
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Dear LZ, sorry that I cant type chinese at the moment

My experience is..
My daughter was the same when she was 4.5months old. We went to see the community nurse and she think she was hungry at night. So she likes me to start to feed her solid food (i was planning to start when she is 6mo). After she has a good feed during the day, she managed to sleep better.

As I remembered, she has 3 stages that she didn't sleep through the night..
4.5month, hunger + learn to sit up. woke up every 2 or 3 hour
6 month to learn how to crawl, woke up every 3 hours
9month to learn how to walk. woke up every 1 or 2 hours or 3 sometimes
At those stages, she just likes to practise the skill whenever she can. She started to walking at 11 month old and since that she sleep through the night, for 10-12hours until now - she is 2yo.

I was so desperate to sleep train her and hope she will get better sleep and so do we as parents. But after all the tears we shed, I will say, 'Listen' to your baby. They cry because they need us. I don't think babies just cry for nothing. After I decided to 'listen' to her, I found we all happier and she progress way better than I expect.

the progress were like this..
at the early stage, She only sleep in arms. We did controlled crying and after 6 nights or crying, she seems to cry less but still crying for 45mins each night. I almost have depression hearing her crying. So I decided to let her sleep in my arms, then slowly, I transfer her to the bed, then her cot. At 6mo, we move her to her room. The transition took about 4 months. Slow and a lot of hard work but all worth it.

Parenting is like politics. Its your choice and I choose to listen to my baby. Just an experience of mine to share. Hope it helps..

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发表于 2015-7-29 18:40 |显示全部楼层
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Connie07 发表于 2015-7-29 15:56
Dear LZ, sorry that I cant type chinese at the moment

My experience is..

感谢经验分享!非常有用

发表于 2015-7-29 22:02 来自手机 |显示全部楼层
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Connie07 发表于 2015-7-29 15:56
Dear LZ, sorry that I cant type chinese at the moment

My experience is..

其实做父母确实很难接受宝宝哭很久 但是我也认为学习的过程确实是有眼泪的

发表于 2015-7-30 10:42 |显示全部楼层
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stkwn 发表于 2015-7-29 21:02
其实做父母确实很难接受宝宝哭很久 但是我也认为学习的过程确实是有眼泪的 ...

Yes, totally agree.

I just gave out Controlled Crying as I don't think it suits us. I absolutely enjoy putting her to bed once she learnt what is 'Sleep'. It takes lot of time and effect.
I'm very firm with manner and discipline. When she is unreasonable, I will insist and let her cry. Eg. she wants a biscuit after dinner, that's a No to me and I will insist even though she cries. They learn very quickly.

发表于 2015-9-30 21:33 来自手机 |显示全部楼层
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楼主能再分享下现在bb睡眠怎么样嘛,
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发表于 2015-10-1 10:15 |显示全部楼层
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luckyme7777 发表于 2015-9-30 20:33
楼主能再分享下现在bb睡眠怎么样嘛,

去了睡眠学校之后变好了,睡整夜,白天两个大觉一个小觉,大觉一个半小时到两个小时,小觉20分钟到一小时。

这几天夜里又会醒了,不过自己哼唧哼唧就睡着了。回家之后也有反复,但是总体上效果很好,两个多月以来半夜醒来需要安抚只有两次。。下午的小觉最难睡。但是现在他习惯了自己入睡,放进房间睡觉的时候基本不反对,只是有时候20分钟之后还睡不着有点哭闹,但是感觉不是想找人来陪,只是自己睡不着有点着急。

总之很值得,自己还要一直坚持,尽量巩固训练成果

发表于 2015-10-1 16:19 来自手机 |显示全部楼层
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city07 发表于 2015-10-1 09:15
去了睡眠学校之后变好了,睡整夜,白天两个大觉一个小觉,大觉一个半小时到两个小时,小觉20分钟到一小时 ...

那看来也是很有效果呀!谢谢楼主分享,木有分分不然也加给你啦,我bb现在快四个月,之前挺好的就最近一周以来越来越差,食量长了,翻身也是白天黑夜翻来滚去觉得自己突然不会带娃了,一到睡觉时间我就愁

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