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Adelie 发表于 2016-7-8 16:49 
LZ, how important are your parents to you?
And how much do you really think you have in common with ...
My parents are very important to me, but you have to remember not all parents have the same ideologies nor are they necessarily as close-minded as you may think.
My parents are actually quite indifferent to whether or not I have a partner, they have already moved back overseas and are just managing their retirement and I guess the future of me and my siblings.
My father is perhaps the most easy-going guy I know, he doesn't have any ulterior agenda towards chinese people and praises them if anything.
I know it may seem shocking to you that I've come here seeking a relationship but the fact is I am 29 years old, I have tried other avenues and nothing has come to fruition. I have previously had a fleeting relationship with an international student and I really did appreciate her values and how she wasn't somehow influenced by the Aussie mentality of pubs and clubs.
Not meaning to stereotype either groups of people but that's just the way I see things. I definitely enjoy the company of my local friends and their sense of humour but when it comes to a true partner, I don't think that's what I'm into.
Perhaps I'm quite picky myself and this is all hopeless but my friend had suggested me this site so giving it a shot is better than nothing at all. I do believe there is someone out there with the beauty and personality to match my values, and she may be here or she may not.
I understand what I am doing is taboo and goes against the grain. I am also aware of all the pitfalls and traps that lay ahead but seriously if I don't put myself out there, time is just going to pass.
I don't believe that people of equal socioeconomic background necessarily need to be together, my parents are a classic example. My mother was a successful accountant for a multinational firm while my father was a local mechanic in HK, so unlikely yet they've been together for over 40 years.
Anyways, I appreciate your candour and I'm always open to discussion about this.
I really do hope to find the love of my life, and if this fails, I will keep trying. |
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