如何克服狗狗害怕孤独的心里

silverfoxs

sofiwy 发表于 2013-4-15 14:19
木有分了，luffy papa 写的真好啊！

话说你找到合适的day care ler 么？推荐下下啊~~~~~     ...

No, although we tired very hard to look for a good day care which is close to where we live, but we couldn't find one. However, Luffy was fine by staying at him by himself without barking.
We are super pleased he has been such wonderful dog and very proud of him as well.
:)

Pyromania

学习了

kikisptr

Purplelight 发表于 2013-4-14 19:38
真的吗？

我家是猫猫， 每天走得时候都得说“宝宝在家乖，走了上班了哦”. 不说担心它会到处找我，会失 ...

猫我不清楚 毕竟猫不是群居动物，而且猫和狗的肢体语言很多都是完全相反的。

kicoandy

原来养狗这样的啊～～～呃。。。看来俺还是要慎重考虑养狗的问题了～～

俺家猫猫倒是自己在家很乖的～～晒太阳睡大觉～

korfi

不知为啥，blackie 一个人在家时狂躁的现象升级了。家里外挂吸尘器的电线全部挂掉。新刷的墙也完了。已经预约了vet pet behavior consultation. 不知道要花多少钱来修吸尘器了。。。

我爱猫眯

korfi 发表于 2013-4-22 14:54
不知为啥，blackie 一个人在家时狂躁的现象升级了。家里外挂吸尘器的电线全部挂掉。新刷的墙也完了。已经预 ...

blackie 极度不适应啊

因为打小就有人陪伴已经不习惯独自在家了,抱抱blackie


我家小哈开始也是酱紫哦,后来我就有意识的训练它啦:开始把她一人关家里但是拴着给点treat 吃吃,她也抗议甚至会吼 ,平常都不出声的娃 。时间由10分钟起逐渐递增。现在关在家里不拴着完全可以自由活动，就是二楼她上不去，我安了个安全门 。

目前还没有任何危险举动，就是把玩具叼的到处都是，从不拿家具什么的发泄。玩累了就睡，醒了就吃点小零食然后在玩，在睡~~~

刚开始听见我们回家开门就激动的扑门，现在能坐门口耐心的等了。

blackie 麻麻也别太急，给 blackie  点时间适应吧，毕竟从小就有人陪啦

blackie 独自在家的活动空间最好不要太大，范围越大他越紧张。

silverfoxs

None of my advices help?

earlylulu

现在家找个房间把它关着，叫不去开门！ 训练到让它知道不叫你们才去，然后它就知道你们离开是会回来的！ 一开始是挺可怜的，一直叫，慢慢它就知道了！

korfi

silverfoxs 发表于 2013-4-22 22:23
None of my advices help?

不是。是周末刚从多多家接回来。在他家就发现这些问题，但是回来以后才开始正式训练。可是觉得他的问题比较严重，还是要去vet, 看看有什么专业的机构可以帮助加速改正。

korfi

earlylulu 发表于 2013-4-22 22:29
现在家找个房间把它关着，叫不去开门！ 训练到让它知道不叫你们才去，然后它就知道你们离开是会回来的！ 一 ...

他不光是叫，抓门特厉害。以前就训过，可是没好好对待这个问题，加上后来婆婆来了，特别惯着他。。。

silverfoxs

hmm, just have some guess:
1. Trust need to be built first
It seems that you guys didn't spent lot of time with him, at least, not quality time. If you want to command a dog, you need to have dog's trust first. Without trust, none dog will obey the command.

2. Dog is confused
Just from information you shared, it seems Blackie is in a confused and a panic status which involves scratch dog and barking. This condition may happen if leader in the group is gone and Blackie doesn't have leader (trusted leader) to relay on. Dog has to assume and put himself in a leader position but obviously, he is not good at it. By sending dog away to a strange environment definitely doesn't help either.


My advices are similar as what I gave before.
Have daily run with dog to build trust
Try to use hand feeding rather than dog bowl to build trust
Make dog work for food (mind stimulation)
setup boundaries and make sure what dog can do and can't (build leadership in the house)

I really hope you can put some feedback on the forum so we can keep giving advice.
We all care about Blackie, a lot

peanut

korfi 发表于 2013-4-22 22:34
不是。是周末刚从多多家接回来。在他家就发现这些问题，但是回来以后才开始正式训练。可是觉得他的问题比 ...

会不会是分离焦虑症？我们诊所也有请动物行为顾问来帮助那些比较复杂的case，主要是他们知道问题在那里才能对症下药，主人才能配合训练改善问题。加油啊blackie爸妈！

wmwbull

狗狗叫。。。用最套。。。。。。

korfi

silverfoxs 发表于 2013-4-22 23:21
hmm, just have some guess:
1. Trust need to be built first
It seems that you guys didn't spent lot o ...

多谢。第一点，答案是否定的。送他去别人家那段时间每天他也都有足够的训练，以及粑粑每天去看他，陪他玩。因为卖房子，现实所迫，不得已而送的。第二点，确实如果粑粑出去了，他都会焦虑，因为那是他的神。可有我们在，他会慢慢平复心情。问题是就剩他一个的时候。。。。

korfi

peanut 发表于 2013-4-22 23:36
会不会是分离焦虑症？我们诊所也有请动物行为顾问来帮助那些比较复杂的case，主要是他们知道问题在那里才 ...

我觉得好像这个最像。因为他小时候从来没自己呆过。粑粑上班就带去办公室。然后就是奶奶来了，每天家里都有人。我第一次发现他行为异常是当奶奶出了院子去倒垃圾时，他就很狂躁地扒着篱笆，或者满院子跑，或者看到粑粑的车开过来了或开出去了，也是很狂躁地跑到篱笆附近，试图追过去。如果把他留着客厅，主人出去，或者留他在门外，主人进来，他都会扒门狂吠。这些在初期，都没有得到他粑粑足够的重视，或者说科学的训练方法。我虽然注意到了，可惜我不是他的神，没办法纠正这些问题。我这样说，他粑粑会很不高兴，说我推卸责任，所以我也希望大家来告诉我，这个问题我到底是不是要靠他所认定的第一位的主人来解决呢？谢谢。期待明晚的vet consultation, 也希望他今天不要给我们太多惊吓。。。

marciameng

korfi 发表于 2013-4-23 08:31
我觉得好像这个最像。因为他小时候从来没自己呆过。粑粑上班就带去办公室。然后就是奶奶来了，每天家里都 ...

Consultation is a good idea too. Hope your vet could solve his problem as well.

silverfoxs

korfi 发表于 2013-4-23 08:31
我觉得好像这个最像。因为他小时候从来没自己呆过。粑粑上班就带去办公室。然后就是奶奶来了，每天家里都 ...

There is only one lead in the group, there is no argue about it. However, there is hierarchy in the clan as well. If the leader is not available, the second dog in the clan will take his place.
The question is who is second rank in the clan from Blackie point of view?
I don't think we can change the fact Blackie PAPA leaving for work everyday, but we can enhance position of the second rank in the family.

Few questions:
1. Does Blackie give way to other family member?
For example, if Blackie is blocking your way, what do you do? go around it? or ask Blackie to leave and give way?

2. family TV position
When you guys watch TV at night, assuming Blackie PAPA sits in the middle in Sofa, where is Blackie? Is he sitting at furthest corner of family or next to his papa?

korfi

silverfoxs 发表于 2013-4-23 09:07
There is only one lead in the group, there is no argue about it. However, there is hierarchy in th ...

good points. ....didnt really pay attention to these before. i might had given way to him! gee, you might be right about this. i will observe how he behaves tonight. thanks mate....

Agamemnon

kicoandy 发表于 2013-4-22 12:40
原来养狗这样的啊～～～呃。。。看来俺还是要慎重考虑养狗的问题了～～

俺家猫猫倒是自己在家很乖的～～晒 ...

有猫做伴的话应该会好很多的

kicoandy

Agamemnon 发表于 2013-4-23 09:32
有猫做伴的话应该会好很多的

真的么~俺就怕狗狗和猫猫相处不来~啊~

earlylulu

korfi 发表于 2013-4-22 22:35
他不光是叫，抓门特厉害。以前就训过，可是没好好对待这个问题，加上后来婆婆来了，特别惯着他。。。 ...

抓门， 你好惨啊！ 我们家的狗来的时候才6个月，我们吃饭把它关厕所，他就无比凄惨的叫呀，叫啊的。然后等到他不叫了，就把他牵出来，一开始真是困难，叫的就没有停过。后来知道了，我们就是把他关着，不是不要他了，就好多了。和上面有的人建议的一样，以后就慢慢的拉长，出去买个东西，喝杯咖啡什么的。慢慢的狗就知道你是会回来的。

不过，这个抓门，我就不知道怎么办了。 这个好头疼啊~~` 有没有人知道抓门怎么办？？？

Agamemnon

kicoandy 发表于 2013-4-23 09:34
真的么~俺就怕狗狗和猫猫相处不来~啊~

话说你上次是不是问过我猫狗相处的问题啊
我家两个每天打的不行啊  不过不是真打~

Agamemnon

earlylulu 发表于 2013-4-23 09:37
抓门， 你好惨啊！ 我们家的狗来的时候才6个月，我们吃饭把它关厕所，他就无比凄惨的叫呀，叫啊的。然后 ...

我家那个以前我们上班的时候也狂抓门， 话说有块油漆也被抓掉了。
不过时间长就好了， 现在就在门口默默的看着

kicoandy

Agamemnon 发表于 2013-4-23 09:37
话说你上次是不是问过我猫狗相处的问题啊
我家两个每天打的不行啊  不过不是真打~ ...

是啊~~呵呵~~~俺家两只猫晚上没事就满屋子追着跑，你追我来我追你的~~~他们大概在家也是无聊~~~

俺 老公特别想养狗~~还指定要大型犬。。。俺一直很纠结~

Agamemnon

kicoandy 发表于 2013-4-23 09:40
是啊~~呵呵~~~俺家两只猫晚上没事就满屋子追着跑，你追我来我追你的~~~他们大概在家也是无聊~~~

俺 老公 ...

大型犬脾气性格基本都很好的， 应该没问题吧~
小声说一句~ 猫狗双全才是完美人生

kicoandy

Agamemnon 发表于 2013-4-23 09:42
大型犬脾气性格基本都很好的， 应该没问题吧~
小声说一句~ 猫狗双全才是完美人生  ...

嗯，这个俺也同意~~
但是俺是一个很心软的人，俺家猫俺老公说就是被俺惯坏的~~打的时候也不狠。。。。

而且俺一直都很怕狗狗的说，最近才对小型犬基本Okay了~~~

silverfoxs

korfi 发表于 2013-4-23 09:30
good points. ....didnt really pay attention to these before. i might had given way to him! gee, yo ...

If You ask Blackie to give away and he refused and tried to fight, ask Blackie Papa to help you.
I can give you an example:

When Luffy was a little, he used to like to run beneath the chair if he was scared. We want to build a leadership and trust in the family for Luffy.
so Luffy's MM was growling and push Luffy to a corner, he went to a chair and hide in it immediately. At this moment, a hero(That's me :) ) jump in and stood between Luffy and Luffy's mm and also bark back to Luffy's mm, then she ran away (pretend to be defeated).

Luffy immediately came out from his hiding cave and ran into me and lick my legs all over the place.

back to your story, if Blackie fight for his position, Blackie Papa need to "bark" blackie and let him know you are the second and kids are third and forth place.

sofiwy

peanut 发表于 2013-4-23 00:36
会不会是分离焦虑症？我们诊所也有请动物行为顾问来帮助那些比较复杂的case，主要是他们知道问题在那里才 ...

Peanut, vet 管不管治疗拖把这些恐惧症！？  我一做清洁，旺少就抓狂，攻击状，我至好把他丢到后院凉快去~~~~大冬天的，心里也不好受也。。下雨天，更不忍咯

sorry,,blackieMa，我走题咯。。。

korfi

sofiwy 发表于 2013-4-23 13:55
Peanut, vet 管不管治疗拖把这些恐惧症！？  我一做清洁，旺少就抓狂，攻击状，我至好把他丢到后院凉快去 ...

哈哈，估计也治。你打去问问。。。

silverfoxs

sofiwy 发表于 2013-4-23 13:55
Peanut, vet 管不管治疗拖把这些恐惧症！？  我一做清洁，旺少就抓狂，攻击状，我至好把他丢到后院凉快去 ...

There is a way of introducing moper.
1. Let dog approach moper
Dog needs to know what it is so leave moper on the floor and let it snif.

2. Don't let dog bit moper
Using moper without water (pretend using) in front of dog, if dog is barking or approaching to the mop, say NO!
Try multiple times, until dog is not interested in Moper

3. Actually start using moper
You should be fine by now