娃六个月就送CC的妈妈请进

pinksky

把孩子带回国吧，孩子在这里，大人孩子都受罪。等大一点儿，再带回来。孩子这么小，还是多宠着一点儿吧。虽然舍不得，可是时间很快就过去。我从三岁半开始自己带孩子，不过是全职带孩子。现在孩子很爱我，也很亲近，不愿意找别人。当然有条件，还是自己在家带孩子好。

FAN2Y

把小孩带回国又回来的，难道没发现宝宝不会对人笑了吗？见生人就躲。

irisjiangyy

珍妮佛 发表于 2012-11-5 21:28
实在不舍得考虑请nanny到家里看呗，我有朋友家请了，20一小时，一天6小时120，住家和不住家还有的便宜，CC ...

请保姆的话需要人在家看着吗？ 我也不想这么早送，但不放心家里就留着小孩和保姆

irisjiangyy

FAN2Y 发表于 2012-11-6 00:10
把小孩带回国又回来的，难道没发现宝宝不会对人笑了吗？见生人就躲。

会这样吗？

irisjiangyy

pinksky 发表于 2012-11-5 23:52
把孩子带回国吧，孩子在这里，大人孩子都受罪。等大一点儿，再带回来。孩子这么小，还是多宠着一点儿吧。虽 ...

这个option已经被老公否决了

Callum2012

老大：3个月我上班了，姥姥带到6个月，请朋友的妈妈带到一岁半，之后5天CC。（刚上的时候病过两次小发烧）哭过几天（我一跑出他的视线就不哭了）3岁之前换过3个CC没有不适应。总之老大是个养的很皮从不认生非常喜欢CC的小孩。-- 这主儿is born happy
老二：2月生，姥姥能带到10月大。之后就纠结了--个人不太喜欢Nanny就是不放心（在CC至少有其它员工监督）老大上的CC要排两年。我们都要上班，坚决不送回国，所以只能找CC了。祈祷这个和老大一样皮实，精神大条，天生开心。
楼主的宝宝现在怎样？请继续分享经验

irisjiangyy

Callum2012 发表于 2012-12-18 03:34
老大：3个月我上班了，姥姥带到6个月，请朋友的妈妈带到一岁半，之后5天CC。（刚上的时候病过两次小发烧） ...

楼主现在还在到处找CC或FDC :) 好的CC排了大半年也没位，Just for kids 我去看了，好多印度老师，director是印度人很不耐烦的样子，而且我那天去没看见一个中国宝宝，老公坚决反对。我现在努力学车中，希望扩大幼儿园选择范围。

trej

Routine routine and more routine.

trej

My daughter started cc when she was 7 months. First two weeks was hard, she got sick straight away, coughing, sneezing and slight fever. We were sick as well. However after that, she was good.

trej

6-7 months is good, don't have separation anxiety.

trej

Make sure you have a consistent routine for the napping, feeding ( milk and solid) etc..

trej

Be prepare for kids being sick, it's inevitable.

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 22:43
6-7 months is good, don't have separation anxiety.

有道理，我宝宝现在还不认人。你女儿两个月抵抗力就建立了，这可够快的

trej

Being a working mum is hard, need to prepare and organize ahead. I cook the baby food in bulk, freeze them for upto two weeks. I have to ask my husband to help out with housework.

trej

We used to have a nanny twice per week, for 4 hourly session. If you know friends who have kids similar ahem you can share the nanny costs.

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 22:44
Make sure you have a consistent routine for the napping, feeding ( milk and solid) etc..

嗯，我儿子时间还是很规律的，自己可以入睡，晚上睡整觉。不过我还是要问问CC的作息时间帮他去之前调一下

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 22:48
We used to have a nanny twice per week, for 4 hourly session. If you know friends who have kids simi ...

你敢让nanny和宝宝单独在一起吗？ 我有点不放心，所以才打算找CC或FDC,还有你的Nanny是鬼佬吗？

trej

The cc provides all the food, just fill in the list. They are very cautious with allergy etc... I would start writing down a list of food tat you have already tried. I

trej

Expressing at work was challenging and stressful, bc I usually have a super busy day. So only lasted three months. My advice will be if you are still breast feeding, if possible, increase your storage this Xmas break. I know it's mor work for mum, but its worth.

trej

If you get the food and sleeping sort out, then after the initial two weeks of orientation, I will see how he go, he should be able to stay all day. There is no need to pull him out early.

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 22:56
Expressing at work was challenging and stressful, bc I usually have a super busy day. So only lasted ...

哎呀，我生完就没啥奶，三个月就奶粉了，所以没有这个困扰。:)

trej

All the Aussie kids love playing outside in the sand pit etc... I bought some cheap cc clothes that are not too white... Haha.... I also tested some normal kids sun cream on her, she was fine. They need a nice hat for outdoor as well.

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 22:59
If you get the food and sleeping sort out, then after the initial two weeks of orientation, I will s ...

好好好，我到时候也这么做

trej

irisjiangyy 发表于 2012-12-18 22:53
你敢让nanny和宝宝单独在一起吗？ 我有点不放心，所以才打算找CC或FDC,还有你的Nanny是鬼佬吗？ ...

My nanny was an Australian girl, but she was a smoker. It was too costly and we couldn't claims any benefit. However she was a nice girl. Most nannies that I have met are decent people. You have to check their reference and trust your own judgement .

trej

Good luck, all the best. You and the baby will be fine!

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 23:08
My nanny was an Australian girl, but she was a smoker. It was too costly and we couldn't claims an ...

如果中国报纸找的阿姨就便宜很多

irisjiangyy

trej 发表于 2012-12-18 23:09
Good luck, all the best. You and the baby will be fine!

谢谢你的经验，非常有用。发现这贴都快变我俩聊天贴了，哈哈

epaheng

我家宝宝七个月送进cc. 直接五天全送。老师很照顾她。到现在三岁了，除了一两次比较厉害的发烧其他没有啥费心的。 小孩很快适应cc生活，吃的好，睡的好，身体体质好，自理能力，社交能力都是在这里锻炼出来的。 里面年轻老师多，所以她很活泼好动，老师很喜欢。其实因人而异吧，不是每个小孩都会生病，焦虑的。找到好的cc老师比较重要。 对常见的如流鼻涕，发烧，咳嗽，红眼病，拉肚子知道如何对付，不要太担心。

Chiffon

楼主.不要担心那么多, 我家老二是6个多月送的, 因为我先生坚决反对老人带孩子,所以FAMILY DAY CARE 一有位置就要了,我们这里居然2岁以上才有机会到WAITING LIST 去PUBLIC DAY CARE --LONG DAY CARE .
我们是什么都给她吃,什么她都敢吃-你只要敢给. 所以一直以来,能吃能睡--当然能玩, 不折腾得你精疲力尽就别坐下. 这样也好,省得总惦记IPAD.
感冒有过2次,每年一次,就是冬天来临前换季, 总是突然一天降温猛地,然后我们总忘记多放厚衣服进去,老师电话我们,我们总是没有接到--开会或见客户什么的, 所以下午去接,就开始鼻子不通---通常我们其中一个马上停止工作, 照顾她2天,然后第3天去CARE, 这样即使别的孩子感冒也有抵抗力. 当然感冒期间,狂给她榨果汁喝. 时不时塞到她嘴里.
另外一个重要因素,你必须与CARE的老师沟通,一旦其它孩子感冒了, 她应当建议那家长领孩子回家,避免交叉传递的. 这一点,我很佩服这个老师, 否则她就单独将那孩子放一个房间照顾--如果实在没有办法那家长,但是需要家长出示医生开的能到PUBLIC的证明.  
所以一直以来,这些孩子交叉感冒几乎没有过.
现在孩子2岁半了,终于等到LONG DAY CARE位置了,明年1月就转了, 其实还真不愿意挪,但是FAMILY CARE的最大缺陷是孩子只有几个,最大优点是一个老师照顾几个孩子,真的很用心, 在我印象中, 老二刚开始去那2月,几乎是那老师抱大的.
所以不管那里,需要一个负责的老师很重要.

WAYIN

建议送FDC，不过也要找到好的。
我家老二7个月大就开始送了，我还不上班，只是因为老大在那阿姨家很好，所以老二我就早早开始送了，我也有1-2天可以休息下。