一个澳洲同事的葬礼

yuxuanlin

从没有死刑, 宽容罪犯, 鬼子们对待同类比我们宽容许多。

blackswan

楼上的

好像是楼主同事被前妻抛弃并已经把所有财产和孩子都给了对方，压力太大才自杀的。

说话能不能留点口德……

海の沙

有的人内心真可怕，人死了都不愿意放过:o

十亭

115513

基督和天主教好，人生的三大事都参与其中，出生的洗礼。结婚，葬礼的祈祷。

cuifen

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 15:04
自杀是最不值得同情的了，何况还有三个孩子要靠自己抚养。他的前妻眼光真毒，把他甩了真及时。我要是他前妻 ...

Zuorenyaohoudao

cuifen

水月境天 发表于 2016-1-23 13:42
这个同事看来打动了你很多阿。
连发3个帖子了。。

有始有终

cuifen

chongza777 发表于 2016-1-23 13:43
给楼主带来了很多打动 ~~~~！！！！！

没有打动,只有感伤。
这是个疯狂的世界!
坚硬的外壳下,也许隐藏的是颗软弱的灵魂!

蚝

心理健康多重要啊，如果可以跟人聊聊，如果可以有人分担一下，如果去隐秘版吐一吐。。。

lynnangel

可惜了 没什么过不去的坎

Cyf123

RIP!

flyingf4u

ptw 发表于 2016-1-23 16:53
把孩子从他身边剥夺的人你不谴责。你是不是没人帮你付房贷车贷了，没有额外的三百块钱拿而耿耿于怀啊？ ...

什么叫把孩子剥夺走？他孩子死了吗？他不能去看他孩子吗？孩子跟妈妈也是法官为了孩子的利益判的。自杀就是懦夫。我是他前妻就在葬礼唾弃他的遗相，自杀给三个孩子终身的心理阴影他怎么不考虑呢？

flyingf4u

cuifen 发表于 2016-1-23 16:48
Zuorenyaohoudao

主说自杀的人不能上天堂是有道理的。我信主。

fangchong

prinze 发表于 2016-1-23 14:03
这是典型的家丑不可外扬啊，老外把精髓都运用自如了，学习了

You need to study more. I don't think it's about hiding. Divorce is normal,he could not handle maybe he has depression? So many people's kill themselves because of depression, depression cause divorce as well.
Chinese culture is blaming, always blame someone else but ignore the real reason.
I feel deep sorry for 3 kids and his parents. It's very sad.

flyingf4u

ptw 发表于 2016-1-24 01:05
你还有人性吗，你还唾弃遗像了。
什么叫自杀给孩子留下心理阴影了，你懂什么叫因果关系吗？没有离婚没有 ...

主说的，自杀之人最可耻和懦弱，不顾家人感受，不顾孩子，逃避责任，死后不得超生。

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 22:37
主说的，自杀之人最可耻和懦弱，不顾家人感受，不顾孩子，逃避责任，死后不得超生。 ...

The Lord says that you shall not judge others, which is exactly what you are doing. There maybe be circumstances that you do not know. He might have been suffering from depression.
Also can you please show me the bible verse. I'd like to know  the exact wording. Please do not try to rephrase any bible verse. There is a risk of expressing your personal view in the name of The Lord.

flyingf4u

拙泥 发表于 2016-1-24 01:46
The Lord says that you shall not judge others, which is exacting what you are doing. There maybe b ...

自杀大罪你信主都不懂还要看圣经啊，问你家附近的牧师吧，就说你抑郁想自杀，问问牧师自杀是不是原罪，如果还不相信牧师，就叫他拿圣经给你看吧。我不是牧师，没有这个权威解释圣经给你。

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 22:49
自杀大罪你信主都不懂还要看圣经啊，问你家附近的牧师吧，就说你抑郁想自杀，问问牧师自杀是不是原罪，如 ...

The Bible is worth reading many times. You are correct that my knowledge of the bible is very limited, and that is extacly why I need to read more. Could you please show me the bible verses? Thanks!

flyingf4u

拙泥 发表于 2016-1-24 01:55
The Bible is worth reading many times. You are correct that my knowledge of the bible is very limi ...

你是教徒怎么找教友解释不找牧师，你有没有常识啊？你尊敬你的社区牧师吗？

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 22:49
自杀大罪你信主都不懂还要看圣经啊，问你家附近的牧师吧，就说你抑郁想自杀，问问牧师自杀是不是原罪，如 ...

I did not ask you to 'explain' the bible verse. I am asking you to quote it, if I did not make it clear earlier

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 22:57
你是教徒怎么找教友解释不找牧师，你有没有常识啊？你尊敬你的社区牧师吗？ ...

I want to read the verse myself. Show me which book and which verses, please

flyingf4u

拙泥 发表于 2016-1-24 01:57
I did not ask you to 'explain' the bible verse. I am asking you to quote it, if I did not make it  ...

引用圣经容易造成歧义，所以我推荐你找牧师啊，这样对主和圣经都是尊敬。我一个虔诚教徒，不敢随便引用圣经，更不敢解释教义，请找你社区的牧师。另外如果英文不好，词不达意，请用中文好不？

flyingf4u

拙泥 发表于 2016-1-24 01:59
I want to read the verse myself. Show me which book and which verses, please

你为什么这么抗拒牧师呢？你又不是邪恶的灵魂，没必要怕牧师。你自己读圣经，容易曲解，牧师是最好的选择。找牧师去忏悔吧，主会原谅你的。

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 23:01
引用圣经容易造成歧义，所以我推荐你找牧师啊，这样对主和圣经都是尊敬。我一个虔诚教徒，不敢随便引用圣 ...

It is my business how to understand a bible verses. (Excuse me I never thought of seeking your help) It is your responsibility to show which part of the bible that your view was based on if you claim that it is what The Lord said

flyingf4u

拙泥 发表于 2016-1-24 02:10
It is my business how to understand a bible verses. (Excuse me I never thought of seeking your hel ...

有病吃药，不懂问牧师，有罪找牧师忏悔。我要祷告了，晚安。

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 23:05
为额外的300元就自杀，这个人真是懦夫和守财奴！我是他前妻和孩子，就唾弃他的墓碑。 ...

How did you know the exact reason of his suicide?

拙泥

flyingf4u 发表于 2016-1-23 23:03
你为什么这么抗拒牧师呢？你又不是邪恶的灵魂，没必要怕牧师。你自己读圣经，容易曲解，牧师是最好的选择 ...

The first question my pastor would ask is ' which bible verse do you want me to help to understand?'
I never resist our pastor. Quite on the contrary, I have deep respect of him.

LWLJH2010

葬礼十年里去了两回，每次都哭。每次其实都不认识死者