混血宝宝妈妈八卦贴

Xiaoxi

I strongly agree with you.
I took Xiaoxi to Shanghai to visit my parents last year just after Xiaoxi turns 1 year. While we were there, Xiaoxi does not like anyone besides me to get close to her, not even her grandma and grandpa, she will cry straight away if she detects anyone's trying to approach her . I have to change my plan to stick with this little tail and not going anywhere for about 4 days, until she starts to get familiar with the strange environment. But we only stayed in Shanghai for 2 weeks, so when she's used to the Shanghaineses, we are about to go home .
Xiaoxi is a strong brave girl, she was very easy to look after since she's born, she hardly gets sick, she does not care much about the blues from hitting the bed, table etc.   So I think the reason she is not comfortable with strangers trying to get close to her is that we didn't allow her to meet too many people. ( Actually, she was a NO Fear girl before she's 1yr, anyone can pick her up, holding her, and she will give you big smile)
The reason my hubby is hesitate to letting Xiaoxi go out too often is the pollution, diseases and crazy people. I think he will start to change when Xiaoxi's getting older.

JuliaBear88

原帖由 ozvany 于 2009-1-28 14:16 发表
哇塞！你们两个的老公太protective了
我老公就一支让我带孩子出去走走，见见别的妈妈和孩子们，让宝宝习惯于和陌生人在一起玩。
我觉得，如果大人愿意放手让孩子接触社会，不管多大的孩子，家长都不会有太多想法。 ...

hi, OZVANY mama,
I totally agree with you.:si20
Let me rephrase again.
My hubby encourage  me, bub  and mum to go out since day one we arrived home from hospital. He is very happy we go out with pram  or drive.
The first month 坐月子  , he was really mad of me because we nearly close all the windows , door :si16 . He always said to me, baby need the fresh air , give my girl some breeze :si91 .

He just hate the public transport. He felt it is dirty, slow and unsafe..:si19

Today, it is another bloody hot day, we are nearly cooked :si151 .

anitavanderwolf

原帖由 ozvany 于 2009-1-28 14:16 发表
哇塞！你们两个的老公太protective了
我老公就一支让我带孩子出去走走，见见别的妈妈和孩子们，让宝宝习惯于和陌生人在一起玩。
我觉得，如果大人愿意放手让孩子接触社会，不管多大的孩子，家长都不会有太多想法。 ...

我老公和你老公的想法差不多，孩子就是要带出去见见世面。
至于火车安不安全，我本人认为Sydney的火车是没有问题的，别忘了那么多人每天上下班，那么多家长带着孩子到City都是坐火车的，可惜我们北区没有火车线，每次都要从City坐火车到处闲逛。每次和 Akari坐火车，她都高兴得要死，看着陌生的人们，微笑换来微笑。
更不要管污染了，这里不是China,况且到处都有污染，孩子还是要经历某种程度的污染，就是你每天呆在家里也会和大气污染亲密接触。Xiaoxi妈妈，孩子是需要锻炼的，一点点污染没什么。

Xiaoxi

原帖由 anitavanderwolf 于 2009-1-29 08:53 发表


我老公和你老公的想法差不多，孩子就是要带出去见见世面。
至于火车安不安全，我本人认为Sydney的火车是没有问题的，别忘了那么多人每天上下班，那么多家长带着孩子到City都是坐火车的，可惜我们北区没有火车线 ...

I have been arguing with the dad, my argument is: Xiaoxi has been to Shanghai, she was fine, no sickness, no uncomfortableness, even though the weather is so humid even in September and more dust there than it's in Sydney, Xiaoxi's head was wet all day if I don't turn the air conditions on; her little feet got so black if grandma does not wipe the floor at least twice a day.( my parents live in Pudong, their unit is new,spacious and neat, the environment there is already better than in Puxi where we lived more than 30years before moved to Pudong).  So I said to my hubby that all things considered, she will be fine in Sydney. But since Xiaoxi is the second and the only child after we lost the first one on birth, so I can not take the risk without consulting my husband. I wish people can understand, I wish my relatives and friends can understand, I understand they all very much like to see Xiaoxi more often, however, at this vulnerable stage, we have to play it save.

[ 本帖最后由 Xiaoxi 于 2009-1-29 13:33 编辑 ]

ozvany

原帖由 Xiaoxi 于 2009-1-29 13:19 发表


I have been arguing with the dad, my argument is: Xiaoxi has been to Shanghai, she was fine, no sickness, no uncomfortableness, even though the weather is so humid even in September and more dust  ...

你们第一个孩子怎么了？能说说吗？不过我倒是觉得，如果你老公现在不愿意让你女儿出去，等女儿长大了，他的想法还是一样的。孩子越大感情越深么

我能理解在第一个孩子出事了之后，第二个孩子会受到更加多的关心。我妈妈就是个例子，她前面的孩子夭折了，所以我外公外婆把我妈妈当宝。不过即使是这样，也不能剥夺孩子该有的活动。把孩子关在家里不是保护她的方法。说句难听的，在家里呆着也有可能会有屋顶塌下来砸到的危险
不过xiaoxi妈妈真可怜，和老公的观念不同。其实你可以试试看以实际行动证明给他看，原来带孩子出去并不是那么可怕的。现带她出去走走，然后坐车，然后坐火车，慢慢来，说不定你老公的观念会改变呢

ozvany

原帖由 JuliaBear88 于 2009-1-29 07:42 发表

hi, OZVANY mama,
I totally agree with you.:si20
Let me rephrase again.
My hubby encourage  me, bub  and mum to go out since day one we arrived home from hospital. He is very happy we go out wit ...

哈，怎么澳洲爸爸怎么的picky啊。如果说公交车脏的话，那么饭店、酒吧呢
是不是所有公共场所都脏的呢

ozvany

sydney的妈妈们！还有没有愿意见面的了？快点报名咯！！！

claudia7422

我宝宝到CHILDCARE啃了两口玩具就已经鼻涕横流了，这孩子过了６个月还真的容易生毛病.在家里什么都啃也啃不出个病来，一出去就不行了.但只要是小毛小病问题不大，就是大人忙一点，这小孩子生起病来超粘人.

ozvany

原帖由 claudia7422 于 2009-1-29 16:44 发表
我宝宝到CHILDCARE啃了两口玩具就已经鼻涕横流了，这孩子过了６个月还真的容易生毛病.在家里什么都啃也啃不出个病来，一出去就不行了.但只要是小毛小病问题不大，就是大人忙一点，这小孩子生起病来超粘人.

祝宝宝健康
开他去看医生了吗？过了6个月真的是抵抗力就不行了，看来我也该开始注意我家宝宝了

Xiaoxi

We Do take Xiaoxi out, we have been to the beach, parks, shopping centers, but the daddy does not want us to go without him. He likes to take bub out to natural attractions, he likes to take bub to national parks, bush walking, flying kites on the hills, playing sand on the beach etc. We will go camping when bub's getting older, it will be very soon:) . He does not like big cities, CBDs, shopping centers are his nightmare, hohoho He is very much a country boy, nothing to do metropolitan.

JuliaBear88

原帖由 claudia7422 于 2009-1-29 16:44 发表
我宝宝到CHILDCARE啃了两口玩具就已经鼻涕横流了，这孩子过了６个月还真的容易生毛病.在家里什么都啃也啃不出个病来，一出去就不行了.但只要是小毛小病问题不大，就是大人忙一点，这小孩子生起病来超粘人.

No wonder you have been so quiet.
Hope he is getting better. :si84  

I remember that you were looking for family care for william. Now it is Childcare? :si1

How did you  cope with the heat?
I could not sleep. I worry too much about Sasha.
Turn on the AC, i am scared that she will catch cold.
Turn off, i worry, she will be hot.
All night, i just turn on / off  millions time(paopaobing(47)) .

Glad today it is Friday :si26

JuliaBear88

原帖由 ozvany 于 2009-1-29 15:50 发表


哈，怎么澳洲爸爸怎么的picky啊。如果说公交车脏的话，那么饭店、酒吧呢
是不是所有公共场所都脏的呢

, not all, at least mine , he is very picky. Drive me nuts some times.

ozvany

原帖由 Xiaoxi 于 2009-1-30 01:16 发表
We Do take Xiaoxi out, we have been to the beach, parks, shopping centers, but the daddy does not want us to go without him. He likes to take bub out to natural attractions, he likes to take bub to na ...

one thing you dont need to worry. if we meet up with other sydney mums and babies. we wont go to city,that's too far and too mass anyway. i would like to suggest to meet up in a park or someone's home.
my idea was we meet up regularly, like every 2 weeks, and meet up at home. so maybe this time we meet up at my home, next time your home. so that way, i can keep the babies away from crows and also they could meet up and play together. i wont expect the mums take the babies out themselves anyway, cause i wont do that either. plus, i think the fathers would also like to meet up and make friends.

if you agree with me, maybe you could talk to you husband and see what does he think about this

ozvany

原帖由 JuliaBear88 于 2009-1-30 07:23 发表

No wonder you have been so quiet.
Hope he is getting better. :si84  

I remember that you were looking for family care for william. Now it is Childcare? :si1

How did you  cope with the heat? ...

你们家有电扇吗？
可以把电扇开着，但是不要对着他吹而是对着他上面吹。因为冷气是往下走的，你把电扇对着他上面吹，他自然会觉得凉快，也不太会生病了
最重要的就是把肚子盖着就行了

amyinoz

酷暑算过了吧? 今天好像好了很多。开空调怕凉着，关了又热，当妈的最辛苦。
我是墨尔本混血妈妈。

JuliaBear88

原帖由 amyinoz 于 2009-1-31 11:55 发表
酷暑算过了吧? 今天好像好了很多。开空调怕凉着，关了又热，当妈的最辛苦。
我是墨尔本混血妈妈。

:si20 :si20 欢迎，欢迎，
请问你是哪个区的。等天气好一些我们会搞搞聚会， 等我和楼主请示一下
别忘了交作业，详细见2 楼， 中奥合资老师可严格了

amyinoz

原帖由 JuliaBear88 于 2009-1-31 12:34 发表

:si20 :si20 欢迎，欢迎，
请问你是哪个区的。等天气好一些我们会搞搞聚会， 等我和楼主请示一下
别忘了交作业，详细见2 楼， 中奥合资老师可严格了

我在MONTMORENCY,请问JULIA 住哪里？聚会！真是太好了！
作业吗？我去2楼再看看

JuliaBear88

我住FRANKSTON  , 你在东北， 我在东南，大家开会研究一下吧，
不过等到天气再好些
我很守信用的， 组织考验我的

ozvany

原帖由 JuliaBear88 于 2009-1-31 12:34 发表

:si20 :si20 欢迎，欢迎，
请问你是哪个区的。等天气好一些我们会搞搞聚会， 等我和楼主请示一下
别忘了交作业，详细见2 楼， 中奥合资老师可严格了

哈哈哈，看得我直想笑。一转眼我就变成老师了
对啊，你们墨尔本的也该找个时间聚会。不然我开这个帖干吗。呵呵

今天带儿子去打6个月的预防针，没想到，两针下去他居然没有哭，第一针打完的时候他还跟我们笑呢！真是不知道说什么好，看得她老爸哪个自豪啊，好象自己生了个世纪英雄似的

amyinoz

一南一北，大概我们要去CITY见面了。想SHOW一下我家小伙子，可是照片没法压缩到80KB，请问你们是如何上传的？

ozvany

原帖由 amyinoz 于 2009-1-31 16:38 发表
一南一北，大概我们要去CITY见面了。想SHOW一下我家小伙子，可是照片没法压缩到80KB，请问你们是如何上传的？

你有没有图片软件，好象picture manager 或者editor之类的
resize一下图片就行了

amyinoz

有RESIZE的软件，但是RESIZE是总是出问题，发不出图片比较烦！

amyinoz

终于行了！我家的小伙子，2岁9个月。

[ 本帖最后由 amyinoz 于 2009-2-9 11:56 编辑 ]

JuliaBear88

确实是 大小伙子！！！！
半个板凳， 等你的浪漫故事

amyinoz

谢谢JULIA加分！我终于穿上鞋啦！从光脚晋升为草鞋族！

amyinoz

原帖由 JuliaBear88 于 2009-1-31 20:30 发表
确实是 大小伙子！！！！
半个板凳， 等你的浪漫故事

孩子成长很快，你的宝宝也很快就成为漂亮的小姑娘了！我家little boy 已经是a little boy looking now. not a baby any more.

西式唐人

你们还好，还可以聚会啊，怎么我这儿就俺一个人。。。

昨天去医院产检，midwife 建议喝点 raspberry leaf tea, 今天就去店里买了，已经喝了两次了，不知道今晚有没有动静。。。唉，I'm so sick of being pregnant !!!! Come on, bring it on!



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西式唐人

原帖由 amyinoz 于 2009-1-31 20:05 发表
终于行了！我家的小伙子，2岁9个月。

帅小伙，好像哪里见过。。。:) :) :)

anitavanderwolf

朋友的女儿，中荷混血。

[ 本帖最后由 anitavanderwolf 于 2009-1-31 22:27 编辑 ]

amyinoz

又看到你家的美女了，这是美女老大吧？看样子美女老三也呼之欲出了。恭喜恭喜！