你意识到自己的肢体语言么？

floraz

发在这里是因为觉得和面试及职场中人与人打交道比较相关

是这样，刚刚老板给team里的人逐个引见一个external firm里的几个partner，可能以后大家会有些工作上的交道
到我办公室的时候，我先是站起来，微笑，逐个与对方对视，打招呼，聊了几句，然后开始cross arms，意识到cross arms不好就放下一个胳膊但是变成了一手cross body搭在另一胳膊上……
感觉自己有时meet陌生人不是很自然，不知道手呀脚呀应该怎么放……尤其是在工作场合里，看来还要多多经历，多多锻炼才好
肢体语言能潜在地反映一个人的状态，在与人相处时适当的肢体语言也表示一定的礼貌
查了一下（http://www.businessballs.com/body-language.htm）比如我刚才两个动作就是
crossed arms (folded arms)
possible meaning(s)：defensiveness, reluctance
detailed explanation：Crossed arms represent a protective or separating barrier. This can be due to various causes, ranging from severe animosity or concern to mild boredom or being too tired to be interested and attentive. Crossed arms is a commonly exhibited signal by subordinates feeling threatened by bosses and figures of authority. N.B. People also cross arms when they are feeling cold, so be careful not to misread this signal.
one arm across body clasping other arm by side (female)
possible meaning(s)：nervousness
detailed explanation：Women use this gesture. Men tend not to. It's a 'barrier' protective signal, and also self-hugging.

也提醒大家，面试时，与人打交道时肢体语言也可以发出signal，比如你的自信，你的紧张，所以注意不要被你的身体出卖了哦(monkey06)

dormimi

Yuki麻真细心啊！

floraz

原来面试前做过一些research
而且我也从公司的角度面试过别人，所以觉得这些东西还是要注意的