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Stage one need someone's help; stage two need someone's accompany or caring; stage three need full time caring either in hospital or at home; stage four single aged parent; stage five another cycle of stage 1-4; stage six another cycle of stage 1-4; stage seven another cycle of stage 1-4.
Above is an extreme case either one by one, or overlap at some stages.
Issue: when? worst case is four aged parents plus a couple of little kids at the same time need full time caring, this is rare; how? worst case is four live in the same home at the same time, and one of us must give up working but single income is not or just enough to support the family. quality of caring?
I believe when parents come into stage 2-3, the situation would be really hard for any young family especially when kids are still young.
We are going back to China and try to solve the problem considering more family members may help each other.
There is no any better choice for our family.
Money is very important and it would solve half of the issue if we have.
Ppl who may share the responsibilities with us is very important, it solves the other half of the issue. The more, the better.
This is our decision, very old fasion.
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