1. What are the differences between how you see yourself and how others see you?
你眼中的自己和别人眼中的你有什么差异: self perception vs your reputation. 360度feedback是一个很好的工具
2. What matters to you? 对你来说哪些是重要的
避免功利的眼光
3. What changes will you make to achieve these goals? 你为达到这些目标会作出哪些改变
通过不断新的练习改变大脑的旧习惯