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我很小父母离婚，8，9岁被我妈接来。在澳洲长大。我妈想我出类拔萃，让我爸那边好看。事事恨铁不成钢。所以我做的事都是要’better’去博得我妈没给过表扬。So I always aim high. I don’t believe in luck, only chances you give yourself and prove yourself. 有个人说我没考虑经济危机，but I have. I just don’t believe that in the worst case scenario, I can’t find a way to feed myself & still achieve. I believe in planning for the better & 为雨愁莫。我之所以说‘单薪很难’是值得达到我自定的水准。不是我已经糊不了口了。
Eg: for the same monthly salary I am earning now. If I lost my job and couldn’t find a similar role nor pay, I can go be a waitress (been a waitress before) and get a second job as a cleaner, do another 3rd job on the weekend doing tutoring, I can still make the same money. It all depends on what you are comfortable with.
其实，我的买3 个投资房的想法还是从这里看来得呢。因为我不甘心30年把60% income都投到一个自己住的房子里。而我也说了我是比较幸运的有我妈的房做我的base。如果走投资房的路不用太担心会被赶走。
As to my job, I do marketing. 有的人会跟着薪水走去找工作，或者兴趣。而我是想往上爬corporate ladder. In my “ideal” world, by 33 I want to be a marketing director, of course the pay will increase as your corporate title rises.
我老公呢。是一个很棒的老公。我说了也是他自己认定的，没我野心大。对我来说一个人的success is not only measured by $ or power. 我老公能让我在金钱以外感受到100%的幸福,还有每一个接触到它的人都能觉得很舒坦是他的success.他是一个很creative 的人, 是一个很棒的 graphic designer.
Actually I think there is too much stereotyping today still exist on 男人女人。If women want to be independent and want equal pay in the work place, then really on the private side, women need to believe in equality surrounding everything - including paying ½ ½ when you go out for dinner with a man and having equal amount of financial responsibilities in a house hold. The men who advocate equal rights should also know that @ home, their house chores responsibility is 50% too.
好像说的越来越跑题。。。
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难忘一刻－－－剃头小记 (2005-1-27) 草莓 
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发表于 2008-11-26 20:12
