照顾坐月子究竟有多辛苦？

wy108586

婆婆来照顾，她首先关心的是小孩子，然后才是你。她之所以照顾你，也是为了你能更好的喂养孙子。
妈妈来照顾，她首先关心的是你，然后是小孩子。
妈妈白天帮着看孩子，你多睡会儿觉，晚上自己带。洗洗涮涮的事让老公做啦。做个饭也不是很累的。
关键是做姥姥的看到外孙心情好，多辛苦也忘了。

猪宝

老人家对月子很重视的，所以能干的她都帮你干。谁叫你是她女儿呢？婆婆么，也不是不好，只不过隔了一层肚皮，总没有亲妈妈那样心疼你。所以如果LZ的妈妈身体不好的话，估计会有点辛苦。

mileswei2006

婆婆的生活习惯、观念和行为模式，与儿媳是很不同的。

如果可能还是娘家人照顾自己。避免出现矛盾，影响大家的感情和产妇的身体。

OneLeaf

要妈妈来你妈会比较累,要婆婆过来你会比较难受.当初我婆婆过来月子里吃得很差,又不好提意见,好几次一碟大白菜一碟小白菜就是一餐,结果我体重直线下降,不出月子就恢复了体型.当然我娃娃很难带也是个重要原因.再看看我婆婆,她也挺辛苦的,买菜做饭,再帮手带带娃娃,中午晚上的休息就一直很有保证,也还是忙得很.后来她自己说体重也在掉,但是是累的还是大小白菜整的就不好说了.

[ 本帖最后由 holly 于 2007-8-31 20:17 编辑 ]

Xueling77

I would never ask my mother in law to look after me for the first month. Depending if your mother in law is really good, i believe they don't really care much about you, they are about her son and grandchild.

My mother in law came for 2 months when I was pregnant and my husband in on overseas training. Even I bought lots of food in the fride, she try to keep good stuff (salmon, lamb leg etc) for his son. Her reason is "2 of us women can't finish it". I sent her back 2 weeks before planned and finished all the things she kept for her son within 2 weeks :)

原帖由 holly 于 2007-8-31 20:12 发表
要妈妈来你妈会比较累,要婆婆过来你会比较难受.当初我婆婆过来月子里吃得很差,又不好提意见,好几次一碟大白菜一碟小白菜就是一餐,结果我体重直线下降,不出月子就恢复了体型.当然我娃娃很难带也是个重要原因.再看看 ...

OneLeaf

原帖由 Xueling77 于 2007-8-31 20:43 发表
she try to keep good stuff (salmon, lamb leg etc) for his son

that's exactly what my mother in law was doing before my father in law came, after he came food was much better