孩子没考上OC。他自己挺失望的！

马灵鼠妈妈

My son didn't get in either. but I am still very proud of him. he got 212.40. much more than what I expected. I told him that that was a very high mark. it doesn't matter if he got in or not. he didn't go to tutoring school before he did the exam.

Isabella2010

马灵鼠妈妈 发表于 2017-10-14 20:16
My son didn't get in either. but I am still very proud of him. he got 212.40. much more than what I  ...

好妈妈！

马灵鼠妈妈

Isabella2010 发表于 2017-10-14 20:43
好妈妈！

thank you!
To be honest I am happy that he didn't get in. Otherwise I will be worrying if he's going or not. He loves his school. He doesn't want to go to another school.

Isabella2010

马灵鼠妈妈 发表于 2017-10-14 20:51
thank you!
To be honest I am happy that he didn't get in. Otherwise I will be worrying if he's go ...

还好你儿子喜欢现在的学校。

tom2010

考得上也并不代表什么， 事业最成功的人读书往往不是尖子。

海之女

OC班招的学生，本来就不多，所以没有考上的是大多数，如果大部分人都能考上，还叫OC班吗？

Ningkam527

Mu daughter got 229. No offer at the moment, reserve at Waitara only. She felt sad too but knew that she needs to start for selective.

Hillwang

失望太正常了，难道不失望是正常的吗？，努力而成功是一生追求的目标，而努力却没有结果是一生的常态。
一定要给孩子讲两个世界的概念，一个是内心世界的认知，一个是外部世界的客观存在，二者调节一致才是生存的根本。
外部世界接触的越繁杂，内心认知的灵活性就会越大。
最近那个获得诺贝尔文学奖的日裔英国人就是因为在年轻的时候有大量的游历，足够宽泛的视野才会造就与众不同的感悟。
一个小小的OC仅仅是生命森林里面一株不起眼的小草，把它看成参天大树的人，认知局限其以后的生活极有可能就草磕之间，如同草蜢。