孩子的atitude, 应该纵容吗？ 这个世界如此不完美，我们做家长的如此不完美， 我们还要培养完美的孩子们吗？

明天

这是孩子无意识的反应吧，不管大人还是孩子可能第一反应就是去责怪他人。

一般我会直接说，请不要这样跟我说话，这是你自己的事情，你自己想着，怕忘记就头一天晚上准备好，第二天早上就不会这么慌张。这时候他就会知道说对不起了。

Hsc

剛剛收到学校（小学）的newsletter,有一段我觉得蛮对题的。跟大家分享一下：

BUILDING INDEPENDENCE AND RESPONSIBILITY
In recent weeks, we have noticed a significant increase in the number of parents who have delivered to School Reception items that their daughters have left at home that morning: school projects or other homework items, lunch boxes and drink bottles, or sports uniforms and equipment, for example.  Whilst it is natural for parents to step in and want to help in such circumstances (particularly if there may be negative consequences for the child if they have forgotten an important item), it is important that we all work together to support our girls in learning to take responsibility themselves for remembering to bring required items to school. Facing the consequences of their actions is most often the best way to support them in remembering to bring items in future. For this reason, we would encourage parents not to be too willing to bail their children out but rather hold them accountable for their actions by not delivering forgotten items and allowing them to learn an important lesson in taking personal responsibility for their belongings.

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VulcanOnIce 发表于 2015-3-26 23:35
5-6岁的孩子, 忘记一些东西, 在所难免。 我们大人, 有时候都要忘记东西, 犯错误呢。 你不一屁股把你儿子 ...

我很赞同。
回想我小时候，父母从来都不会这么对我。如果同样的情况发生在我身上，父母肯定会毫无怨言地帮我回去拿。我现在也没有被宠成不负责任的孩子。
我觉得对孩子多一点理解，多一点宽容吧。
同时反省一下自己，有时候我自己对孩子也会要求过高。

Tina.Zhang

Hsc 发表于 2015-3-27 14:05
剛剛收到学校（小学）的newsletter,有一段我觉得蛮对题的。跟大家分享一下：

BUILDING INDEPENDENCE AND R ...

仔细读了 写的很好 像雅斯作文。。。:)