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以下是我刚才跟女儿的对话：
我：足迹在搞活动，写关于青春期的文章。大部分是家长写的，你想不想为你们 teenager 说两句？（其实潜台词是：据说参加活动可以拿到很多分，你写文章我拿分，应该是不错滴 ）
小兔同学：关于青春期？可以啊，用你的ID发吧，这样可以帮你挣点分。（哎呀被她看穿了，怎么这么了解我？ ）
小兔同学：中文还是英文啊？
我：最好中文吧，大家喜闻乐见呀，英文也行，没规定，你随意。。。。
过了一会，小兔同学交作业了，我看了一下，基本掌握了一个中心思想，那就是：青春期的问题都是因为生理因素造成的，如有不满，千万别怪我。。。。 原来借着写征文的机会给我科普哪，完全把自己择出去了哈。。。。我说，你这英文太多，中文不够，看得我眼晕。 小兔同学倒是虚心接受了建议，答应过一会再加点中文内容。
以下是兔子同学的青春期征文：
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Adolescent
每一个孩子小时候，不管多乖或多淘，总会到青春期有巨大的改变，不管是关于身体physical changes，还是在mental, or emotional changes or even social changes, 每一个孩子里面 （虽然外表会有所不同）的内心和身体的adaptation and development will vary slightly up to a degree. 在这个关键时刻家长不能要求孩子像以前，还有需要用心观察孩子的behaviour, to avoid 伤害她/他。
Teenager时期是development的时期。在这几年每个孩子都会有所变化，在他的精神上，或真正身体上。 自己身为teenager下面能分析出来的都写了，如果家里的孩子有所谓的“不乖”的behaviour有可能在以下被提过
在Microsoft Word 上搜索“Girls”, 出来的字会是 “Teenagers”, “Misses”, “Adolescents”, “Daughters”类型的.
It is during adolescent and the teenager period girls develop most prominently, most as a result from hormones that are beginning to become activated during puberty.
Puberty is the factor that causes most of the so called “bad” or “misbehaving” behaviours happening in teenagers. The marker that signifies the arrival of puberty in girls would be her monthly cycle… commonly called a period. After this, she is officially an adolescent, or teenager. Most parents are protective around young teenage girls at this time, but the monthly flow of blood actually means the body is getting ready for reproduction, with the blood as a result from the release of an unfertilised egg every month.
Hormones, too, are beginning to activate the inner sides of a girl.
She begins to become much more concerned towards her own appearances. Appearance refers to the additional amounts added to a body to appear attractive, which includes make-up, hair-do, dying hair, careful around her skin, ear-piercing, rings, short skirts and diets (which refers to “skinny-ness”).
However, puberty is the time where girls are at their most emotionally and mentally weakest. Most girls at this point have fragile feelings; they get broken easily, but also change constantly. Crying may become a result of this.
Most girls have much self-doubt in themselves; doubting their possibilities, doubting their abilities, and their appearances. Because of this, teenage girls shouldn’t be pushed with too much pressure. If they had failed in some area, her self-doubt will increase, and the extent will just be pushed further with any more discouragement.
Many parents claim they don’t scold their children, however, teenagers being at the stage of puberty have a contorted world; they see things differently, and they respond to words in a way most parents wouldn’t have thought she would.
Socially speaking, girls at the stage of puberty would be seen hanging out with friends a lot more willingly than their parents. This is most likely because of a feeling of freedom with their friends; parents shouldn’t need to worry their children are edging away, unless your child seems overly rebellious.
Teenagers require a sense of freedom, a sense of independence, away from their school pressures, family and parents pressures.
Girls should be allowed to take more time off on the weekends or holidays to play with their friends, go shopping or watch some movies during puberty to ease their sense of belonging, to let them know that they belong in this world, that there are people who care for them.
Teenagers，尤其是男生，会有一个很强的感觉要表现，展示自己和自己的能力。
Most parents at this stage may be getting a lot of negative feedback from sons; as boys grow up, they will eventually leave the nest, unlike girls who stay close to the family. Boys are the ones who will eventually be forced, either by themselves or the family or society, to go out there and earn a living by themselves, to be independent. A majority of boys are born with this.
Therefore, at the stage of puberty, boys can be said to be more rebellious than girls. Boys may even take up swearing in this generation at an earlier stage than girls. Also, boys may be more confident in the teenage stage, unlike girls.
At the teenage period, boys may begin to try to become more attention seeking amongst his peers, however be shy and turned away with their families. A majority of boys strongly dislike being pampered at this age, with their strong sense of independence and sense to prove themselves infront of their peers. They mark actions of affection from family members as “embarrassing”. This is simply nothing more than emotional and social changes in the body and brain, and teenagers are prone to have the sense of being independent towards their development into adults, so parents should not worry about common behaviours such as these.
Boys at the stage of puberty, as well as girls, will most likely be more considerate to their personal appearance. Boys will start dressing as they please, doing their hair, start wearing accessories such as caps, bracelets, sunglasses etc, and buying their personal style of clothing. However, like girls, some boys may start “working out” to create a more appealing build.
控制teenagers会长的越大越难,他们慢慢会有自己的主张，还有一部分被朋友和同学被影响. 家长应该去开始慢慢接受孩子的长大的变化。家长不能expect孩子永远不变。即便变化是家长不接受的，或者 “不乖的”，家长应该开始接受孩子as who they are （他们自己）, and not who they want them to be （而不是家长希望他们变成的）。
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管理人员评分D妈妈 在2013-7-11 20:57 +50分 并说
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身為來自台灣的澳籍中國人，我深愛我的祖國，不卑不亢。(17年3月28日更新) (2013-11-15) hugoyung 
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