悬赏："Talk to me"和“Talk at me”有什么不同？

bulaohu

赏金： 20分
条件： 第一个清楚全面地解释这两句话的异同，并给出例句。中英文皆可
期限： 无期限

Steady ready go!

[ 本帖最后由 bulaohu 于 2010-11-9 10:35 编辑 ]

Ritacow

Do I get any points if I participate? hohoho

bulaohu

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

well, I didn't set it in the terms that ex-moderators can't participate. so yes, you are qualified.

不过你能不能用中文解释？我喜欢看你的中文

realfenglin

I wish he'd talk to me rather than at me

我希望他能和我谈心，而不是发牢骚。

[ 本帖最后由 realfenglin 于 2010-11-9 10:36 编辑 ]

bulaohu

加了一个给出例句的要求，不然对你太简单了

粉猪妈妈

20分太少啦

bulaohu

原帖由 粉猪妈妈 于 2010-11-9 10:37 发表
20分太少啦

不够买ice cream的？

realfenglin

加了中文翻译了。

bulaohu

原帖由 realfenglin 于 2010-11-9 10:35 发表
I wish he'd talk to me rather than at me

我希望他能和我谈心，而不是发牢骚。

看来你知道意思，但是写这么简单我不能给分的，因为这个帖子的目的是让大家能学到点东西

粉猪妈妈

talk at:

It means you launch into a long-winded monologue without thinking of the person on the other end and what he or she has to say

Talking to:

It means, you have sense of the audience, you might expect feedbacks, responds or discussions.

The distinction is I think one is more meaningful from the perspective of the speaker than the other is from the perspective of the listener

[ 本帖最后由 粉猪妈妈 于 2010-11-9 11:09 编辑 ]

粉猪妈妈

中文，前者．．不用多说

后者，一般有前提

猪猪的宝贝

only 20 points?...

Ritacow

我在工作学习那边贴怎么做 ppt presentation 呢。先给别的同学一个机会我再来补充。
你想看我的中文错别字？

chermside

talk at, talk to, talk with 这三者的语气以及和交谈对象的互动关系 是一个从“不友好”到“友好”的渐变。

楼上的例句已经很好：I wish he'd talk to me rather than at me.            我希望他能和我谈心，而不是发牢骚。


Talk At is more aggresive, usually unfriendly, not looking to get feedback from you.  It's a one-way harsh normally with confrontation.   有攻击性，不友好，单向的倾倒内容，语气严厉并且伴随着对抗情绪。楼上的例句已经很好了，我用“抛球”来举例吧，更形象一些。 Talk At 更象是   I am shooting the ball at you.

Talk To is a one way of conversation.    语气中性，并无任何感情色彩。  我用“抛球”来举例吧，更形象一些。 Talk To 更象是  I am passing a ball to you.

Talk With is more engaging and friendly.   语气更为友好，并期待着交谈双方的互动。  我用“抛球”来举例吧，更形象一些。 Talk With 更象是 I am serving the ball to you.


请版主指正。

猪猪的宝贝

“talk to me” means literally that, having a conversation with a person
eg: Please talk to me about our relationship.



“talk at me” is more pointed, and usually implies that there is a hidden message.
eg, “the boss gave a lecture to the whole company about working hard, but we all know that she was talking at Bulaohu because he is so lazy!”.

[ 本帖最后由 猪猪的宝贝 于 2010-11-9 11:35 编辑 ]

粉猪妈妈

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chermside

原帖由 猪猪的宝贝 于 2010-11-9 11:34 发表
“the boss gave a lecture to the whole company about working hard, but we all know that she was talking at Bulaohu because he is so lazy!”

这个例句绝的

猪猪的宝贝

到我就没加分了。。。。。

alphaseeking

鬼佬都搞不懂

bulaohu

原帖由 alphaseeking 于 2010-11-13 00:05 发表
鬼佬都搞不懂

鬼佬里面也有文盲和弱智