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孩子的学校有划船俱乐部 我想问问waiting list 是根据哪些条件来的 ，就在家长群里问了一下。 想不到莫名其妙被某个家长一顿输出。 能不能麻烦各位大神们帮忙分析一下 ，是我真的问的有问题还是这个家长脑袋有包？
我和这个家长之前完全没有任何联系，只是同在一个家长群。
我
I finally convinced my daughter that rowing is a fun sport to try (I know after one year ). I heard there’s a waiting list of around 20 people — does anyone know how it works? Is it simply first-come, first-served, or are there other factors they consider?
某西人家长
Yes there is a waitlist of about 20 I believe. So considering so many girls want to give it a go if your daughter is on the come try rowing lists and not interested or planning on turning up the school needs to be informed so they can let everyone try!!
我怼回去了
Curious what's the difference between "give it a go" and "try it out"? Seems "give it a go" should have higher priority in your mind Also not sure where this "not interested or planning on trning up" came from. It sounds like saying "no one else can do a good job". Not sure if I'm reading it wrong.
Update：
除了我的convinced 这里用的确实有问题， 经过多位网友以及chat gpt的客观分析，这个家长确实是在阴阳我
This response does sound a little sharp or passive-aggressive, especially:
The "if your daughter is on the list and not interested or planning on turning up" part feels like a subtle accusation or warning.
It assumes the daughter might take up a spot and then not show up, which could be seen as calling Person A irresponsible.
The tone lacks warmth — no encouragement or camaraderie, just a rule-focused reminder.
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。 不过这个可能真的是文化差异