怎么训练宝宝自己resettle?

413x

Hsc 发表于 2013-4-7 23:41
if he was crying loudly initially, then i would pat him on my shoulder until he quiet down, then con ...

你说的这是他多大时候的事呀。

rainywangyao

对睡眠训练法无语，我尊重孩子自己的意愿，到一定年龄自然能自己入睡。小的时候需要安全感的时候我愿意辛苦点陪着她。

hilltop-bear

ozmate 发表于 2013-4-8 22:01
请教一下，关于母乳喂养，怎么给他规律作息呢？他饿了就要吃，吃奶间隔每次多少都有点差异 ...

母乳亲喂也可以规律作息的，具体可以看save our sleep，我母乳瓶喂，没仔细看亲喂的方法，重点好像是开始建立作息的时候要把吃不完的奶泵出来，等到点再瓶喂给宝宝，要一直这样操作直到你身体自然调节好了就不需要泵奶了，每三小时喂一次，逐渐延长到四小时

Hsc

413x 发表于 2013-4-8 22:41
你说的这是他多大时候的事呀。

My son is 3 months old now. I started patting him to sleep from birth, but in the first 8,9 weeks, he always fell asleep when breastfeeding.

To all those against sleep training, the tracy hogg (baby whisperer) method does not involve leaving the baby to cry to sleep at all. I always stay by his side to pat him when he was crying, falling asleep. This method is very gentle and tracy is totally against cry it out. The fact is, even if i cuddle/carry him to try to get him to fall asleep, he will still cry for 10-20 min before he can fall asleep.

cxwer

怀孕的时候看了很多育儿理论，有哭泣控制的，有亲密育儿的。。。直到有了自己的宝宝，才发现每个理论都真的只是‘理论’，孩子不尽相同，做妈妈的需要有足够的弹性去应用不同的理论。

我家宝宝睡眠一直都很马虎，从月子里就不爱睡。慢慢经过我的调整后，晚上也能睡够12个小时，白天2觉，每觉1.5-2小时不等。只是晚上还要起2次左右。一般白天睡的时候都是拍睡，晚上奶睡。

后来看完sos后，觉得不能睡整夜还是宝宝不会re settle，于是放弃拍睡，孩子困了不肯自个睡就扔那独自哭泣，必要的时候进去安抚下。大概进行了3天，每天上午下午1-2个小时大哭不等，我发现宝宝不但没有学会自个settle睡觉，反而变得特别没有安全感。以前他会自个趴着玩很久，也很喜欢在cot里说话，看着我为他精心打扮的墙壁帐篷开心的叫呀笑呀，哭了几天后变的很恐惧cot，明显和我分开就很焦虑，也不自个玩了，需要身边一直有人陪伴才行，我渐渐觉得也许这个方法不适用于他。

现在我一点都不想训练他了。只要每天有好的routine，他困的时候妈妈拍拍睡，半夜想起来在妈妈怀里喝奶，我都会满足他。小宝宝很快就会长成大宝宝，不出1岁半，你想半夜把他整起来他还不乐意呢。我很享受现在他赖着我身边，母子亲密的感觉。Raising boy里说男孩0-6岁是her boy，很快他就会长成一个小男子汉，跟着爸爸满世界溜达去了。我想我再也做不到看到他哭得憋得青紫的小脸，满眼期盼的望着我，希望我能抱起他来，而我却把他继续扔在cot里，留给他一个孤独的世界独自哭泣了。

monkeytt

cxwer 发表于 2013-4-9 13:11
怀孕的时候看了很多育儿理论，有哭泣控制的，有亲密育儿的。。。直到有了自己的宝宝，才发现每个理论都真的 ...

LWLJH2010

Hsc 发表于 2013-4-7 22:50
my experience of teaching my boy to self settle:
i initially patted my baby to sleep. when he was a ...

谢谢分享啊。我现在也给我家娃拍睡，10分钟之内能拍着。
可是从sleep cycle醒来的时候我有时候就奶了，有时候就拍她了。奶她是因为她不好好吃奶，所以我会觉得她可能比较饿。白天5个小时吃奶很少。有啥建议么

Hsc

LWLJH2010 发表于 2013-4-9 20:01
谢谢分享啊。我现在也给我家娃拍睡，10分钟之内能拍着。
可是从sleep cycle醒来的时候我有时候就奶了，有 ...

Unfortunately both my kids do not seem to get enough breastmilk too. With my first, I had to top up with formula when she was 5 months old coz she stopped putting on weight. With my second, he is now dropping from 50% to closer to 25% so I need to keep an eye on it too. I do noticed that if I breastfeeding him on one side, then change his nappies, then breastfeed him on the other side, then he will drink a bit more. If him wakes up from his sleep cycle and I cannot pat him back to sleep, then I usually just let it be. I have never tried to nurse him back to sleep. (He normally sleeps well at night).

meya

有个网站很好用，改天把我看的传上来。