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今天宝宝的CC发的邮件提到如何鼓励孩子的独立性，个人觉得很值得借鉴，特别是象我这样的新手妈妈。
希望能帮助到没有经验的妈妈们。
How we can encourage independence
1. Help your child make decisions by offering a small choice of two things.
2. Give them little responsibilities, such as putting away toys or helping you to get the lunch ready.
3. Get them involved in the weekly shop by following simple instructions, such as 'we need three red apples', or ‘ can you get the bread on the bottom shelf'.
4. Show enthusiasm when your child tries to help, even if it'll take longer. Recognise any tasks they have accomplished
5. Praise their ability. This is necessary for a child to believe they are capable of doing things and that it was their own skill that led to success.
6. Tempting as it is to say, 'I'll do it,' say 'let me show you how' instead. That way, your child's learning new skills and not relying on you to do everything for them.
7. Encourage them to self-feed. Yes, it's messy, but it's also an achievement that will encourage independence.
8. Point out why things are dangerous or unacceptable without belittling the motivation to do things on their own. For example, using a sharp knife to help with dinner may seem like a good idea when your child has seen you do the same, but a butter knife is more appropriate.
9. Avoid using the word 'no' unless something is dangerous or clearly wrong.
10. Respect a child's feelings and fears. Even if it seems silly to you, ask them why they are afraid and then take time to talk about it.
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