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Dear LZ, sorry that I cant type chinese at the moment
My experience is..
My daughter was the same when she was 4.5months old. We went to see the community nurse and she think she was hungry at night. So she likes me to start to feed her solid food (i was planning to start when she is 6mo). After she has a good feed during the day, she managed to sleep better.
As I remembered, she has 3 stages that she didn't sleep through the night..
4.5month, hunger + learn to sit up. woke up every 2 or 3 hour
6 month to learn how to crawl, woke up every 3 hours
9month to learn how to walk. woke up every 1 or 2 hours or 3 sometimes
At those stages, she just likes to practise the skill whenever she can. She started to walking at 11 month old and since that she sleep through the night, for 10-12hours until now - she is 2yo.
I was so desperate to sleep train her and hope she will get better sleep and so do we as parents. But after all the tears we shed, I will say, 'Listen' to your baby. They cry because they need us. I don't think babies just cry for nothing. After I decided to 'listen' to her, I found we all happier and she progress way better than I expect.
the progress were like this..
at the early stage, She only sleep in arms. We did controlled crying and after 6 nights or crying, she seems to cry less but still crying for 45mins each night. I almost have depression hearing her crying. So I decided to let her sleep in my arms, then slowly, I transfer her to the bed, then her cot. At 6mo, we move her to her room. The transition took about 4 months. Slow and a lot of hard work but all worth it.
Parenting is like politics. Its your choice and I choose to listen to my baby. Just an experience of mine to share. Hope it helps.. |
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