求助：应该怎么做！！

junejunyan

我朋友的小孩今天下午晚饭前在家附近的草地上和他的同学约好玩足球，结果碰见4个西人小朋友也在那玩。他同学认识那几个孩子， 是一个学校的，但是朋友的孩子并不认识这几个。然后这几个孩子就一起玩足球。不知什么原因，朋友孩子的同学走了。就剩下朋友的孩子和4个西人的孩子玩足球。然后就是朋友孩子被这4个西人的孩子给打了。是那种摁在地上的打。。没有什么外伤，衣服全是泥巴。朋友问我该怎么办？
我也不确定，说实话，我真没碰见这种情况。是告诉校长吗，但这事不是发生在学校。当孩子哭着回家的时候，朋友和他出去看的时候，小孩已经走了。也不知道家长的信息。。但是就这么白打了吗？
朋友带孩子刚从中国来这里（五月来的），不知道应该怎么办。。 有谁知道应该如何做呢？
万分感谢。

rahxephone

这么恐怖。。。！
多大的孩子啊？？

本来感觉应该先去验伤，没什么伤，谁也说不清楚到底是怎么回事啊。

紫萱

小孩有讲为什么么

sunbury

中国孩子相对来讲，打架的并不多，白人孩子打架感觉要多很多。

没什么法子，只能算了。

rickygao

去告诉学校也许学校有办法呢

laoqiu

孩子多大？怎么说的？

uty

几年级的？让孩子自己先交涉呀，问清楚怎么回事，要是那些孩子的问题，让他们道歉。男孩子应该学会自己处理问题先。

maodouzi

不懂帮顶

Xueling77

I will go to GP and make sure the child is Ok. Ask the child what happened and complaint to school. Bully is not tolerable. If the child is beaten badly I will report to police as well. The 4 kids need to learn a lesson. Seeing GP and reporting to school or police at least leave record if bad things happen again.

Xueling77

At least the school need to be notified. Just like cyber bully. Things may not happen at school but school should do something if it get reported. It happened on students from the school. I won't just let it go especially 4 kids bullied one.

junejunyan

rahxephone 发表于 2014-6-11 21:04
这么恐怖。。。！
多大的孩子啊？？

朋友孩子是11岁。据说其他4个是10 或11岁左右。不是一个班的。但是应该在一个学校。

junejunyan

紫萱 发表于 2014-6-11 21:05
小孩有讲为什么么

好像是因为抢球。。但是具体什么原因，小孩也说不太清楚。他刚从中国过来，想来英文也不行的。

junejunyan

Xueling77 发表于 2014-6-11 21:27
I will go to GP and make sure the child is Ok. Ask the child what happened and complaint to school.  ...

thank you very much for this. will tell them what to do next time if it occurred again..
it happened very bad time.. just this evening... GP is normally closed...will report to School principle definitely.

junejunyan

Xueling77 发表于 2014-6-11 21:30
At least the school need to be notified. Just like cyber bully. Things may not happen at school but  ...

cool, thanks for this. will let them know.

junejunyan

uty 发表于 2014-6-11 21:19
几年级的？让孩子自己先交涉呀，问清楚怎么回事，要是那些孩子的问题，让他们道歉。男孩子应该学会自己处理 ...

小孩刚来，英文应该有一定的问题。自己沟通有困难。

Xueling77

junejunyan 发表于 2014-6-11 22:22
thank you very much for this. will tell them what to do next time if it occurred again..
it happen ...

No worries. I hate bullying even though my kids haven't come across yet. I sent both of them to takwando and I tell them to tell me things in school happy and sad. Bully can be serious especially your friend just came to a new environment. By the way some medical clinics open till 10 pm and you can always go to emergency if things are really bad like open wound etc.

junejunyan

Xueling77 发表于 2014-6-11 22:44
No worries. I hate bullying even though my kids haven't come across yet. I sent both of them to ta ...

yeah. you are right.. some clinics are open late... I talked to my friend.. she told me it seems to be okay.
her son actually learnt Wushu (marshal law) in China.. but one to 4 oz kids.. also one of 4 oz kids is quite big and fat from what I heard... I think he knew how to protect himself.. I have forwarded all the ideas I gathered from here.. hopefully will be useful to them.. Thank you very much.

puzzler

同情一下，碰到这种事最挖塞了，男孩子最担心的就是打架问题，女孩子就是被孤立，搞小团体。
LZ或者问问他的同学，为啥都走了，留下一个跟不认识的同学玩？

likejr

10岁挺大了，如果是我肯定报警，而且如果知道是那个学校的，也报告学校，但不会直接接触对方小孩/家长。虽然这些可能都没啥用，但起码对小孩是一个交代。

他的同学不应该啊，留下他一个跟4个不认识的玩，而且刚来，英语也不行。

另外，其实男孩子打个架其实不是啥大事，我儿子还为了他好朋友跟别人打群架，头也缝了几针。

spottywot

他应该和自己朋友一起走掉才对阿，学校外打架，还真难界定。

既然也没受伤，那就算了，下次学聪明点。

linger

我觉得至少该告诉老师或校长,留个记录。这次没事, 难保下次啊。这也是对那四个学生负责

family

要和学校汇报一下,学校会管的,你不出声,就怕以后还会欺负你

不解

不在校园内的话，报警。

merrybaby1

也不知道应该怎样解决。楼主有消息更新一下。

largepa

第一直觉是报警