“背后说坏话，心里不平衡”英语怎么说最地道？

True/False

1     做某个岗位熟了，独挡一面，越来越轻松。引来西人同事嫉妒，整天叽歪，嫌她做得多，PAY又一样。忍无可忍，准备反击。谁能帮我翻译一下下面这段话，大概就好：

xxx，不要心里不平衡，要不咱俩换，你做我的，我做你的，怎么样？

2     又是一西人，TEAM LEADER级别，知道中国人不好对付，视我为竞争对手，经常在大头面前告歪状。偏偏大头是欣赏中国人的，我决定某日开会当众给他一个教训，请问：“不要背着我在经理面前说坏话”怎么说更地道？


谢谢！！

bmatt

talk behind my back 貌似可以

jiaxipan

进来学习的

y12345678

dobber

bananainpajamas

dob artist

Missy

I think it's a little harsh to say that in a meeting, and most bosses wouldn't appreciate having to deal with an open war, leave out the public humilation if you can, perhas ask the person to come and speak with you directly if he has an issue.   

KIST

Missy 发表于 2014-1-14 11:03
I think it's a little harsh to say that in a meeting, and most bosses wouldn't appreciate having to  ...

Yep, the boss  call the meeting for his own business, and he will piss off for staffs fighting at the meeting.

think twice before you do it.

report

黑人的技巧急需提高，还不如在他们抽屉里放条蛇之类的

yuisaka

你这是要被劝退的节奏

lubber

just hold on, you can talk with your leader for the salary, for others, just ignore them

wilson21st

back-stabbing

Helenzhang

像大家建议的，不能直接在会上或与那两个人面对面发生冲突，那样的斗争方法一时解气，吃亏的是你自己。你把你的想法直接跟重用你的老板谈，有理有节有据，老板喜欢能帮他干活的人。

花花和花花

会上你只需要说自己哪里做得好就行了 别的就不用提了