大家帮我出出主意吧，坚持还是放弃？

super1

已经解决，谢谢

happylife1

Go as far away from him as you can.

super1

happylife1 发表于 2013-10-2 06:03
Go as far away from him as you can.

我知道了，可是我能知道原因吗？怎么就这样了，想不明白

happylife1

If he is "san xin er yi" now, he will never change in the future. If you want to use him as a stepstone to come to Australia, I will not say anything. But if you want to settle down and have a life, I suggest u think twice. I mean I don't know him, don't know the full story, it is purely based on your description. I believe this is the question in your mind. You might have already got answer, you just are just trying to convince yourself about your judgement. I might be wrong, it is your life, you know him better. He could be a perfect man in the real life. There must be some reason that you like about him. I mean my husband also likes to swh "fei cheng wu rao/bai li tiao yi" etc. I let him watch and he is just watching.

蚝

真不太好帮。

我要认识他，聊聊就行了，然后告诉你他到底怎么想的。

祝福你吧。

miao123

happylife1 发表于 2013-10-2 06:52
If he is "san xin er yi" now, he will never change in the future. If you want to use him as a stepst ...

I can't agree with you more. My man also like to watch all these dating show and give comments on those beauties but it doesn't mean he has evil thoughts on those women or try to step out from his bottom line in the marriage. I suggest LZ to spend more time to understrand who you man actually is before you make any decision to persist or give him up.

laylachen

他就是不爱你，还坚持个毛线

super1

happylife1 发表于 2013-10-2 06:52
If he is "san xin er yi" now, he will never change in the future. If you want to use him as a stepst ...

谢谢你，亲爱的！其实我明白，他就是不够爱我。但是不愿意相信。我想问一下，会不会是因为出国，让人变的更加现实。在巨大的现实压力下，选择理性？

super1

laylachen 发表于 2013-10-2 07:24
他就是不爱你，还坚持个毛线

太直接了。。。

laylachen

super1 发表于 2013-10-2 07:29
太直接了。。。

含蓄能解决问题么？所以自己骗自己了

super1

miao123 发表于 2013-10-2 07:02
I can't agree with you more. My man also like to watch all these dating show and give comments on  ...

会纠结是因为前面我们真的很好嘛。。。是从突然要花一笔钱开始，他发现经济紧张，想到今后又害怕，就开始对我冷淡想逃避的

super1

laylachen 发表于 2013-10-2 07:32
含蓄能解决问题么？所以自己骗自己了

我总在想问题是不是出在自己身上，是不是自己给了他压力

happylife1

Did ask u for diamond ring?

laylachen

super1 发表于 2013-10-2 07:35
我总在想问题是不是出在自己身上，是不是自己给了他压力

你还是赶紧分手，在国内找个好男人，别离乡背井跑来澳洲，不然到那个时候你还来发帖求助的话才叫一个惨字

super1

happylife1 发表于 2013-10-2 07:38
Did ask for diamond ring?

不是我拉，是他自己想买大件，但考虑到将来，钱不够

super1

laylachen 发表于 2013-10-2 07:40
你还是赶紧分手，在国内找个好男人，别离乡背井跑来澳洲，不然到那个时候你还来发帖求助的话才叫一个惨字 ...

恩，我会慎重考虑的，谢谢你亲爱的。

miao123

怎么一眨眼的功夫这楼就炸了？？？？？
我还准备发表一下感想滴。。。。

super1

miao123 发表于 2013-10-2 08:04
怎么一眨眼的功夫这楼就炸了？？？？？
我还准备发表一下感想滴。。。。 ...

亲爱的，可以说的，我在的。还难受ne

Poppy123

刚想围观下！介是肿么个情况腻？

emma2013

AhPooh

???

sydneyweather

？？？

super1

sydneyweather 发表于 2013-10-4 11:49
？？？

谢谢亲爱的关心，纠结很久，打算平常心对待