I'm not a parent, have no idea how hard it feels, and I don't want to trivialise your feeling. But judging by your earlier posts, it appears her deformity is only superficial. Sure she may not be able to play guitar or piano or some other instruments, but she can do just about anything else (including driving and painting and writing) and can live a life as productive as anyone else.
With a loving parents like yourselves and an advanced society like Australia I'm sure she'll grow up pretty much forgetting the deformity is there, and perhaps becomes an inspiration to many.
If you don't see it as a disability, I'm sure she can grow up without any physical or psychological impediment. Good luck and enjoy your parenthood! :)作者: JuliaBear88 时间: 2011-9-24 16:27
祝福
妈妈坚强作者: chenxi_sun 时间: 2011-9-24 16:27
小姑娘真棒勇敢呢，亲一个作者: kuxxc 时间: 2011-9-24 16:30
Oh I just read this: 医生说，你们把她当成正常的，别人就把她当成正常的，她自己就把自己当正常的。The doctor is so right!
And your husband is right too. She's a blessed child because she was born to both of you. Even if the ultrasound revealed what you know today, there was no reason to change anything.作者: 1008ml 时间: 2011-9-24 16:38
祝福宝宝！作者: Lion_Princess 时间: 2011-9-24 16:40
深深的祝福，祝一切都好！作者: ning303 时间: 2011-9-24 16:46
继续
我们继续在recovery unit等着女儿醒来，一共有5.6小朋友的样子，时不时有医生来看小朋友，判断是不是ready to go home。
