理论与实践--适用于0到2岁的宝宝 分享一本好书(SAVE OUR SLEEP) 以及我给宝宝做睡眠训练和ROUTINE的心得体会

nttz

ikerzy 发表于 2014-10-14 20:55
无知的家长太多了.... 还这么多人顶， 真寒心， 想过宝宝的感受么？那么小那么柔弱的一个生命， 刚来到世界 ...

"这种“训练”孩子的方法早都过时而且被证明是极端错误的了。孩子长大后有心理障碍的比例很高。follow your heart, take care of your own baby. You are his/her whole world!"


Totally agree!!!!

nttz

To readers of this post:
Things promoted on the forum are not always right.
Be careful if you want to decide what to be done on your lovely baby, especially something which can impact him/her in a very long run. (It may take 20/30 years to show you the effects!)
Some new Ideas sound very attracting these days, but many of them will be proven wrong soon. Think about how people raise their children 200  years ago, 1000 years ago, what their attitude might be towards this "Sleep training"?

sorry I can not input Chinese characters now so I have to write in English.

nttz

http://www.guokr.com/post/541308/
E．有研究证实0-3个月的婴儿，还不会假装哭来控制父母。新生儿哭显示其真实需求。（发展心理学博士 @陈忻-儿童心理http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_65395453010196d3.html ）
隔离式哭声免疫法历史悠久但也争议最大，目前的建议是6个月以下不适用。